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Wednesday, 25 December 2013

Reasons Why A Girl Should Sleep With a Boss So as To Get a Job?

Welcoming You Back from the last Journey. The Journey Of Christmas and Xmas. Hope you found something good. Now to the issue of today. I just thought of this, and began to wonder, but it seemed so confusing and I decided to share my thoughts with you. Its the issue of girls and their ordeals. There is this issue of girls having the challenges of being persuaded or coerced to sleep with their bosses before they can get a job. Most female job seekers will understand what I am trying to say here. In Nigeria and probably the world today, it has been a normal routine for a girl to seeking for a job to have a hotel appointment with the boss before she can secure a job. Most of the instances I have heared have ended up in the girl refusing the hotel appointment and invariably forfeiting the job. Now, I want to ask, does it mean that such a girl is a virgin? Or...The reason I am saying this is because some of these girls refusing such offers have boyfriend(s) whom they sleep with on an offer of a plate of rice, Sharwama, and ice cream. Some girls before graduation sleep with not less than 100 men just by mere going out with them. Now, when it is time for her to secure a life-changing job, with that same thing in-between her legs which she has been giving out to guys freely , it becomes a tedious work. Some are those that travel to big cities like Abuja, Lagos or even to UK during their undergraduate days to accomplish some tasks already paid for; in outrageous amounts ranging from 20,000 to 100,000 Per night. These same people find it difficult to do this same work for a job. Listen, I am not encouraging immorality, not at all!! But all I have to say is this, if you are a girl, DO NOT sleep with a man to get a job on the condition that *You have never slept with a man before, you are not sleeping with one at the moment, you don't do self-service and you are not a L*sbi*n. (Pure Virgin) *You do not intend having a boyfriend/sugardaddy in future until marriage. *Your ways are probably bad before as mentioned above, but you just turned a new leaf ( Born-again). * You are married. But if you are having a boyfriend at the moment, whom you sleep with, or you intend having one in the near future, and you don't want to do that same thing to get a job, hmmmmm.... Have you also considered, if that same boss asking you to meet him in a hotel room meets you on the way and asks you be his friend (unto toasting levels), will you reject the offer?? Food for thought! The issue is that most girls do not know what they want in life. If you are a bad girl, why not exploit your badness. And if you are good, use the opportunity. Choose ye today whom you shall serve. In conclusion, I present to you GOD'S BLESSINGS and CURSE...Choose one! But as an advice, choose BLESSINGS. Shikinah! Dear reader, how did you find the piece? Good, bad or nonesense? Feel free to say your mind. Remember its the youth Question, and your voice does count. Use the comment box below. Don't Forget To SHARE to your friends using the social icons below!
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Unbelievable!! Do You Know That The Word 'Xmas' is Devilish? Find Out!

Welcome to the Christmas edition of the youth questions. How has the journey been so far. Hope fantastic? Ok, now I want us to have a little reflection on the issue of Christmas. Why do we replace 'Christ with 'X' in CHRISTMAS. Why do we have to write or say Xmas instead of Christmas. That is the issue at stake today. Many people are guilty of this without knowing. The letter 'X' signifies something unknown or something bad or Evil in nature. In the collection of signs and symbols, there is no place that 'X' has meant something good. In road traffic signs 'X' means danger. In the internet 'X' means P*rn*graphy. It is used in accident scenes to represent someone whose identity is unknown. In mathematics it signifies unknown, bad or fail. The question now is, why do we represent Christ with 'X' as we have in Xmas, Xtian, X-like etc????? This is absoluetly an invention of the devil because the devil does not want that name to be mentioned. Now logicians has attributed the use of Xmas instead of Christmas as a mere communication methodology. To them it is a mere abbreviation aimed at achieving a communicative intent. Yes, that may be correct logically speaking. But in spirituality, it has a great significance. Jesus Christ is the Lord and Master and should not be represented with a symbol that has series other negative meanings. The devil invented that X in Christmas to remove the essence of Christmas which is CHRIST-the reason for the season. When the essence of Christmas is replaced with 'X' the reason(Christ) for the season(Christmas) is gone and people tend to misbehave. Does it take more effort to say Christmas than Xmas? What could be the main reason for saying Xmas instead of Christmas. Another school of thought,some pentecostal extremists, has attributed this to the date we celebrate Christmas(25th December). According to them, Nobody knows the date Christ was born. So the birthday of Christ is UNKNOWN and 'X' signifies Unknown. Therefore Christmas should be called Xmas. Absolute fallacy! The Catholic Chiurch did not just select 25th December, there was a reason for that. That will be our next topic. Keep a date with us. So, in conclusion, take the pains and pronounce Christmas and Not Xmas. Even in the kingdom of darkness, they avoid such names as God, Jesus, Christ etc. Those names are prohibited and abonminable. Please dear Christians, rise up to the Challenge, take the pains and effort to say Happy Christmas and not Xmas. If after reading this article, you continue with your Xmas saga, then you are a devil incarnate. Dear reader, how did you find the piece? Good, bad or nonesense? Feel free to say your mind. Remember its the youth Question, and your voice does count. Use the comment box below. Don't Forget To SHARE to your friends using the social icons below!
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Tuesday, 3 December 2013

Is There Anything Wrong With Introducing Your Female/Male Friend to Your Parents?

Welcoming you back from the last journey. The journey of "What the Bible says about Divorce. I hope you ere richly informed. I am not getting enough comments. Please feel free to say your mind, I mean just your mind, as it is. I shall appreciate a lot Now to the issue on ground for the day. What is wrong in introducing my male/female friend to parent. ? Well, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. It is a welcome development. At least it tells your parents that you are sincere in your dealings. But as you introduce remember some things, especially my fellow guys: *Remember that some girls are very cunning. They may introduce you to their parents as a way to implication. Be wise when you are in 'love'. *Infact guys, don't allow her parents to know. Until it comes to marriage, never introduce yourself to her family. *Do not trust her / him. No matter the amount of 'love" involved. I know why I am saying this. Ask me if you wanna know. *In conclusion, there is nothing wrong in introducing your partner to your parent especially for girls, but guys, be careful, something may be wrong if you are introduced or if you introduce. Be careful, girls are very dangerous. Dear reader, please I would like to hear from you, how did you find the piece -bad, good, better, excellent? Also, correct me if you think I am wrong somewhere. We would appreciate. Just say your mind by using the comment box below. thanks Don't forget to Share to facebook to your friends using the {f} icon below. Much thanks.
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Thursday, 28 November 2013

Do You Know that the Bible Supports Divorce?

Welcoming you back from the last journey, the journey of "things you do not Know About Wet Dreams". I hope you were deeply enlightened by that piece. Happy reading. All we need from you is to keep visiting www.theyouthquestion.blogspot.com it is a place to be for all youths.

Now to the nitty-gritty of the main event. Today I want to talk about divorce. This became essential to correct some anomalies that people have conceived as the truth, especially some pentecostal extremist.

Some people said it is sinful for a man to divorce his wife or vice versa. But that is not the outright truth. There is a condition which the bible placed for divorce.

The book of Sirach (Ecclesiasticus)25:25-26 gave a condition whereby one can divorce his wife. It reads:

"Don't let a bad wife have her way anymore than you would allow water to leak from your cistern. If she won't do as you tell her, divorce her."

Did you hear that? If she won't do as you tell her, divorce her. I am saying this because of people that say that you MUST not divorce your wife, on whatever ground.

Secondly, Another area said, Mathew 5:32-"But I tell you, if a man divorces his wife for any cause, except for the case of unfaithfulness is guilty of making her commit adultery." Did you get that?? Except for what? UNFAITHFULNESS. What it means is that, you are not allowed to divorce your wife except on the case of unfaithfulness. But remember that there are different kinds of unfaithfulness-moral, spiritual, s*xual, behavioural etc. I am not advocating for divorce or trying to promote evil. But I am only saying that there are conditions which divorce is allowed. So people should know how to preach and what to preach.


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Wednesday, 27 November 2013

Police Arrests Catholic Priest in Imo For Owning a Gun,Asks him For licence

The name of the priest if Rev. Fr Moses Ekpedo, the parish priest of St Mary's Catholic parish, Dikenafai, Ideato South LGA, Orlu Diocese, Imo state.

The priest was attacked by armed robbers last week friday. And during his homily on sunday 24th Nov, he openly said that he owns a gun and that he will shoot them if they try coming to his house again.

According to our source, He did not stop their, he went ahead to rain abuses on the DPO of the area, Ideato South Police Command, calling him a criminal. The reason we do not know but it could be because the police did not intervene during the robbery attack considering the proximity of the police station to the parish.
The priest also abused the traditional king of the community, HRH, Eze Festus Odoemena and other traditional kings of the neighbouring autonomous communities. He called them them evil people even with their presence in the church.

Now, this morning, (Thurday, 28, Nov. ) some group of police men from Owerri Police Command came and arrested him, asking him for a proof of the gun which he said he owns.


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Things You Do Not Know About "Wet Dreams"

Welcome back from the last journey, the journey of "How to 'Chaick' a girl in Nigeria. I hope you were updated with something there. My dear keep reading www.theyouthquestion.blogspot.com , you must always learn something new here everyday. It is a journey with the youths only.

Now to the issue of the moment, Do you know that "wet dreams" make men healthier and even stronger. First of all what is a wet dream?

At the age of 13 and above, boys begin to experience some changes in their system as a sign of maturity. And one of the changes and signs of maturity is the "wet dream". When boys sleep, they sometimes dream where they are having an affair with a girl or romancing a girl, and in the process they release sp**m in their sleep which wets their boxers, when they wake up, they only find out that they are dreaming. Remember that the sp**m is released live, and not as a dream. This is what is called wet dream. It is a natural occurence and not a sign of being possessed by evil spirits as many have been erroneously believed.

Now, releasing of that sp**m helps to keep boys alert, fit, prevents cancer of the prostrate gland and healthier. It is the only non-sinful way of releasing sp**ms. Any other way you use in releasing is sinful ooo *winks*


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How To 'Chaick' a Girl In Nigeria

Welcome from the last journey. We disproved an erroneous saying that has been there for years and had been a bane in the development of our youths. That saying, " The Youths are the leaders of tomorrow" is what we are actually talking about. The youths are not the leaders of tomorrow, they are the leaders of today. So take note of that and do not be deceived.

Now to the main event, How to Chaik a lady. This is mainly for guys. Most guys normally make some of these mistakes anytime they see a girl they like. Most guys infact have let go some girls they have seen and liked because they do not know what to tell her and where to even start telling her that.

Hello my fellow guys, when you see a girl you feel you like:

*Approach her, with confidence.

*Greet her. Just know that unto the first time is concerned, you will do the greeting first, in which ever you make want it.
But give her that initial respect. Its very important.

*Please do not tell her, " I love you" for this first time. This mistake is what most guys do everytime.

*Be a man, be in control of the discussion, now start. Tell her why you stopped her or why you called her.

*If you were caught by her beauty, be bold and tell anything that has made you to approach her. If the lady is civilized, she will respond to you in a respectful manner. But it is unfortunate that most girls are not civilized.

*Also note that you must not approach every beautiful girl you see. That's not a mark of a gentle man.

*So, let's go, practice makes perfect. Chaik a girl today! *winks*

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Monday, 25 November 2013

Question No.8: At What Age Should a Man/Guy Marry

Welcome! Good morning to you. How did the previous journey go? The journey of "whether Love is actually blind?" Did you get those facts we unleashed? How did they go. We wait to hear you as soon as possible. Now to the question of the day, At what age should a guy marry? Wait a minute. Give your own answer before you continue reading.... Ok, I threw this question one day in a boys and girls gathering and many people were saying 30, 28, 35, 25, 27 etc. Some girls even said 24 is ok. But for me, listen and get my own view. Guys Should marry at any age they make their money. If you have reached 30 years and don't have any money, please do not try marriage, because if you try it, you are only trying to bring children into this world to suffer. I hate seeing small babies being less cared for. You see some parents who have up to 6 children but cannot even give them good clothes. Not even good foods. They are malnourished. If you make money at the age of 20 and want to marry, fine and good. But remember that you can never run away from the consequences of your choice. But even though you are forty, but have no money, please forget marriage. So in answer to the question, the age at which a man can marry is the age of money. Until a man makes money, he must not marry. Period!!! Dear reader, please I would like to hear from you, how did you find the piece -bad, good, better, excellent? Also, correct me if you think I am wrong somewhere. We would appreciate. Just say your mind by using the comment box below. thanks Don't forget to Share to facebook to your friends using the {f} icon below. Much thanks.
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Sunday, 24 November 2013

Question No.7: Is Love Actually Blind?

Welcome back from the last journey, whether love has categories or classification. I want to believe that the whole thing is flowing. I hope you are flowing with the current. I hope you are gaining some knowledge. Remember, nobody is a monopoly of knowledge. If you have anyone to share with us please we would appreciate. Now to the issue of the day, Is love actually blind? Since I was born the saying that love is blind has been a popular adage. Everywhere you go, all you hear is that love is blind. I want to believe that this saying has misled many people, especially the youths. Now, hear me, to say that LOVE IS BLIND is absolutely false. LOVE IS NEVER BLIND. Yes, I repeat it, love is not blind. But love can blind someone. Understand me, love is not blind, but love can blind someone. It is when love blinds you that people say that love is blind. No, love is not blind, rather you are blind due to love. How can love be blind? I do not know whether you have witnessed any scenario of blindness of love. A boy who is deeply in love with a girl might go to a very unimaginable extent and do something drastic. When he or she has committed, people will say that love is blind ( If at all that is love). They are just Operating in blindness, it is not the love that is blind, but they themselves are blind due to love. *I don't know whether someone is understanding me* So I hereby disprove that saying: LOVE IS BLIND. And I say that love is not blind, rather LOVE BLINDS! I hope you get the difference. If not feel free to ask. Love blinds! Dear reader, please I would like to hear from you, how did you find the piece -bad, good, better, excellent? Also, correct me if you think I am wrong somewhere. We would appreciate. Just say your mind by using the comment box below. thanks Don't forget to Share to facebook to your friends using the {f} icon below.
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Saturday, 23 November 2013

Question No.6: OK, If Love Truly Exists, Do We have Types/Classifications Of Love?

I welcome you back again. I hope you are flowing with the current. Please if you are not you are free to tell us why. How did you find the previous issue of ours: Whether Love is actually really. Ie Whether love exists! By now I want to assume that you have added something to your knowledge bank, if not, why? Now to the issue of the moment: If actually love exists, do we have categories of love? (Do we have types of love?) Should I go directly to the point or not? Ok, there is no need beating around the bush. Let's hit the nail at the head. Does love have categories? Do we have types of love? *No, we do not have categories of love. Love has no classification of any sought. *Before now, if you ask a girl for her hand in a relationship, she will ask you what type you mean. According to many people, we have: Agape love Erotic love Casual love (Just friends) *People say that Agape love is the christian type of love that knows no sin while erotic love is the one that yearns for a union between the opposite gender. *Yes it is true, but just listen to me: love do not have types. If you love someone, what it means is that you can sacrifice your resources for him or her. Love is pure in its nature, but it can be abused. It is due to the abuse of love that made people to classify love as being erotic or agape. A boy having an Agape love for a sister in the church can fall into temptation and have an affair with her. That is an abuse of love, and not a different type of love. A boy in a relationship with a girl and does have affair with her may be termed to be in erotic love, but that is not correct, it is not love in a any way, it is lust-which is an abuse of love. So what I am trying to say in essence is that love does not have classifications. The Abuse of something cannot rule out the Use. Love is pure in its nature, rather it is due to the guiltiness of the human conscience that made man to start classifying love. Love exists, yes, but it has no types, it has no classification, it has no categories. Dear reader, please I would like to hear from you, how did you find the piece -bad, good, better, excellent? Also, correct me if you think I am wrong somewhere. We would appreciate. Just say your mind by using the comment box below. thanks Don't forget to Share to facebook to your friends using the {f} icon below. Much thanks.
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Question No.5: Is Love Real? Does Love Exist?

Welcome back from the last journey, the journey of Lips painting by women. The question was that if something is actually wrong with painting of lips, nails...I hope that one fared well. Remember to always say your mind in the case of any confusion or misunderstanding. Now to the issue of today, we are treating whether love is actually real. Does Love exist? In my own opinion, love can be defined as a sacrifice of one's resources for the betterment of the other. The person or party that sacrifices is the lover and the person or party being sacrificed for is the 'loved'. It can be reciprocated. Do not forget that. Having the above definition in mind we can now ascertain the true nature of love as regards its existence. As far as I am concerned, LOVE Exists! How: if you believe in that little definition above, then let me ask you a simple question: have you ever sacrificed your time, money, intelligence or any of your resources for another person's good?? If yes, then it means that love truely exists....I have proved it...lol I know you are smiling or trying to laugh, but wait, don't do that yet. Is the proof not correct? Then go ahead and educate us please...nobody is a monopoly of knowledge. Just use the comment box. The question is: Does love exist? Dear reader, please I would like to hear from you, how did you find the piece -bad, good, better, excellent? Also, correct me if you think I am wrong somewhere. We would appreciate. Just say your mind by using the comment box below. thanks Don't forget to Share to facebook to your friends using the {f} icon below. Much thanks.
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Wednesday, 20 November 2013

What is Wrong in Me 'Doing it' since it is difficult to Abstain?

Welcome to the question number 2. How did you fare with the last Question, who is a youth? Hope you enjoyed the journey. If so bravo, but if not, why? Comment and let us know. Now the question for today is : What is wrong in me "doing it" since it is difficult to abstain? Well, I believe before now, the answer to this question should have been in your modus Operandi. But in order to fufil all righteousness, let me put a little mouth. It is quite obvious that abstinence is the best option, but extremely difficult. Now, should we rule out possibility with difficulty? For something to be difficult does not mean it is impossible. First, since the law does not allow it, both religious and civil, then something is wrong with it. So it is illegal. It is sin.

Second, I understand it is very natural and cheating nature is almost impossible, starting from me (the writer). There is no pretence about that. But there is a prayer that catholics normally say during dismissal of their mass that tickles my fancy most times. Its normally said in Igbo, it goes thus: " Duru anyi laba o Jesu, nyere anyi aka irube ndi anyi no n'okpuru isi, ghara idaba na njo obula. Mana oburu na anyi adaa ada, nyere anyi aka k'anyi si na njo puta na-ahu gi n'anya. Amen. "


English translation goes thus: " Protect us as we go, oh Jesus, help us to obey our superiors, and not to fall into any sin. But if however, we fall, help us to come out of it, and keep loving you always. Amen. " Do you get what I am trying to communicate in this prayer?

Let this prayer be your watchword as a youth who is grappling with the daunting challenges of a "natural phenomenon." Please I would like to hear from you, how did you find the piece -bad, good, better, excellent? Also, correct me if you think I am wrong somewhere.

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Tuesday, 19 November 2013

Who Is A Youth? (2) - A must read for anyone between 15-40 years

Having being a human being living on earth for almost 24 years now, I have come to realise some of the Things I had hitherto taken for granted these are what I term the YOUTH QUESTIONS. Most of our younger generations have been wasted, no thanks to lack of spiritual foresight, creativity, intelligence etc; on their part and also on the part of those who nurture and nature them.

 According to the Oxford advanced learners dictionary, a youth could be defined as a person who is young, especially the time of life between between a child and an adult. In other words, it is an intermidiacy between childhood and adulthood. Youthful age is the very one thing that never returns. It is a temporal state of life, consequently, adequate care and precaution must be taken, for an idle youth makes a needy old age and any mistake made at this stage of life could be everlasting, and regrettable. A youth is not someone who is biologically or physically grown up. Though, however, it is growth inclined; but to a greater extent it is maturity that talks who a youth is.

Maturity is synonymous to youthfulness. Time has come for people to understand that maturity goes beyond development of coarse voices in males or shrill and soprano voices in females. It is not all about development of beards. It as w
ell goes beyond development of big "oranges" in females. Maturity is in behaviour, self-esteem and dressing. If you are still wondering what I am driving at, I am telling you to Be matured in walking, talking, dressing, eating etc. The indiscretions of our youth are the happy memories of our old age. Better have ideals in youth, because in old age, you will not.

Always be wise! The youthful period is the most vibrant period one can serve God. Humility and self-control should be another name for youthfulness. Listen to this bible verse (Sirach 18:30-32) "Do not be controlled by your lust. Keep your passions in check. If you allow yourself to satisfy every desire of yours, you will become a joke to your enemies.

Do not indulge in luxurious living, the expense of it will ruin you." It is a thing of dismay that most youths today do not know who they are. The real concept of youthfulness has been misconstrued, misconceptualized or at worse basterdized and underrated. They see life in the spirit as a thing of old age, because they have one or two things to 'tidy'. It is a pity. Kyrie Eleison!


 Dear reader, this is the maiden edition of this journey with the youths. Hope you have learnt something here. I will be x-raying to you about 10000 facts about the youths. Never miss a single one. The name of this blog is www.ogainnocent.com, all you have to do is visit it constantly to get updated.

If you are not INFORMED, You are DEFORMED, and if you are deformed, you lack the capacity to PERFORM. A word is enough for the wise. No person is born wise. The most learned people are often the most wise! Better to play fool a little while than to be thought a complete fool.


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