Reasons Why You should Stop Posting Your 'significant' PICTURES/EVENTS on Facebook

Reasons why you should stop posting your Important pictures, Events, Achievements and Successes on social Media/ Facebook.
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I really feel sad any time I see people especially friends that are dear to me posting their important pictures, events, successes and achievements on social media especially on Facebook. It is not really good to some extent, (to the best of my knowledge).
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You graduate from secondary school, you rush to facebook and tell the world that you have left secondary school by posting graduation photos.
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You get admission, you rush to facebook and upload Matric photos.
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You graduate, you rush to facebook and post Convocation photos
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You go for NYSC, you tell the world that you have been posted to so-so-so state for your NYSC.
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You pass Out of from NYSC, the next thing is to upload your NYSC certificate on Facebook, to get the world informed that you have passed out. And so on...
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Listen, please get me aright. All these are not bad. But they are not too good. Remember that, this piece remains my own opinion and thought. So do not be incognizant of my biases, IF ANY.
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Here are the reasons I feel that it is not wise to publicise your achievements, especially successful achievements on Facebook, majorly.
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Remember, the owner of Facebook is very wise. Mark Zuckerberg made us to have "Facebook friends" and refused to allow us have "facebook enemies". Be it known to you that your facebook friends(those that you inform about your successes) is comprised of your "real life friends" and "real life enemies". Do you get that? In other words, your enemies in real life are on Facebook with you. And unfortunately, Mark did not give an icon for "Facebook enemies" for you to categorise them. So they are also part of your "facebook friends".
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So when you are posting Your life events and successes with photos; do you actually know the implication??? The implication is glaring: You are informing your friends and enemies that you have achieved this or that...so they can hate you the more. Even some of those who don't wish you success and might have forgotten you will be reminded by facebook that you have got something new..Is that making sense?? Many have met their death because they obliviously keep informing the world every single step they take in life and their enemies keep watching and following them; until they nail them down.
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Also, anything you upload on facebook is public. It can be used for you or against you any time, any day. It can be used by your friends or your enemies; and it can be used for 'ANYTHING'. Your spiritual enemies can use it against you; your academic enemies can use it against you; your Political enemies can use it against you. Don't say it doesn't matter! What you said today on facebook, can be used against you next 100 years, as far as Facebook still exists. Be careful!
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Why tell the secret if it is not sinful to keep it?
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Human beings will wish you all the successes in this world, but will hate you when you achieve them.
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A stitch in time will always save nine.
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He that has ear, let him hear.
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A word is enough for the wise.
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It is the Lord who speaks!
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Youth Challenges - What is rape (2)

What is rape.  This is actually the part two of this article. Read part one here too understand fully



Most girls have attracted this unfortunate incidence to themselves through their acts of indecency and nudity. Where the carcass is- the vultures gather. They fly themselves in s!xually explicit forms and parade along the streets within odd places and at odd hours, displaying their body languages. Some others are victims of night clubs and party shows. In all, nobody pities a snake charmer bitten by a snake. Hence they are victims of rape

            In countries like China, U.S.A and South Africa, rape cases are not taken for granted. In South Africa for example, any man caught in the act of rape is prosecuted, convicted and made to apologise before the South African women for abuse of their right. This is not the case in Nigeria; anything goes. Rape cases are rarely reported due to fear of stigmatization and shame. Even the few reported rapists are only subjected to long jail terms or made to languish in psychiatric homes; with little or no proactive involvements to inhibit future occurrences.

            Consequently, the governments and other relevant institutions should make the penalty for rape more severe to serve as deterrent to other anticipating youths. Most importantly, our ladies should be bold and courageous enough to present themselves without any fear of stigmatization whenever there is an incidence of rape. Our ladies should also understand the fact that exposing their nak3dness is not just the best way to show beauty. Rather, that can be an easier way to portray madness. Our men on their part are advised to exercise some iota of control over their bodies. That a woman appears nak3d on the street is not a justifiable reason for anybody to misbehave. These will go a long way to sanitize our society, protect the right of the human person and restore the sanctity of s3xual intercourse which has been broken and violated.

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Youth Challenges - What is Rape?

RAPE

Rape is the act of having a s£xual affair with someone through the use of force or violence without his or her consent. It is the act of having an undue advantage of one’s s3xual outfit without a consensus being reached with the party involved. Rape is a very barbaric act. It is an act of immaturity mostly carried out by men; even though there have been few cases of women raping men. Forcing a woman to bed depicts madness. It shows the degree of lack of self control most people have. Today, rape cases have taken a very bad and unfortunate dimension. It has lost its gravity before the law. It is unfortunate! it is a very big challenge among the youths today in the society.

In recent times, there has been an upsurge of cases of rape in our society; children, teenagers, young adults and the aged all being victims of this anathema. Rape offends the dignity of the human person and that of women in particular, by denying them the rights to self will. The Christian Holy Bible and the Moslem Quran all forbids rape in all ramifications. As aforementioned, raping a woman through the use of violence is a showcase of immaturity, senselessness and lack of spirit of discernment on the part of the much-talked-about rapists. It is not a crime to say that some husbands do rape their wives. This is true insofar as the definition of rape remains valid – a forceful or violent approach to sex. Many men abuse the so-called rights they have over their wives by forcing their way through, even when their wives admit not being disposed for s3x due to some reasons as stress, fatigue or ill-health.

            Worse still, several cases of rape have been occurring in our universities. There have been different cases of multiple men attacking a single woman. Some girls have also lost their lives in some cases too. The university is majorly a collection of youths (boys and girls) at their “peak” of time. This should have been an avenue to crusade against this backdrop in human dignity. But the university is now a breeding ground for rapists and their victims. They go to the extent of making video clips of these rape scenes and uploading them on the internet for public view. This is scandal!

This is part one. continue with part two here.

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