WHY WOMEN BEHAVE THE WAY THEY BEHAVE {part 1}

Women have a unique behavioural pattern that is very characteristic of them. This is what I will try to expose to you in this serial lectures. Today we will be dealing with the part one of the gist.

Women Behave in different ways in:
1. Relationships
2.Marriages
3. Religion
4.Schools
5.Society
etc.

Today, we will be dwelling on the relationship aspect.

Women believe that they are 'women'. Ýes, They have that strong perception that they are who they are. By that I mean that a woman believes that evcerything is at her disposal in the presence of men. They believe that they are special beings (of course they are) when they are are dealing with men especially in relationships.

Have you ever wondered why: You will take her out, yet you will buy the foods and drinks? You will send her credit, yet you still have to do the calling? You will buy her car, yet you will have to fuel it for her? lol . She will offend you, and will ask you to appologize; to mkention but a few.

The reasons are not far-fetched. The reasons are not mysterious. They are very simple. And what is the reason, it is because they believe they are 'women' (if you may understand what I mean). It has been embeded in their brain that they are to be treated so. That is why most times you wonder whether they do not have common sense that should tell them that when you send them credit, they ought to call you back and appreciate. And when something enters the brain, the only way to get rid of is by neurosurgery, they cannot just simply act otherwise. It is part of a woman's life to expect you to still fuel her car, even after buying the car. It is an act coming directly from the brain. That is what their brain tells them.

Women have a natural feeling of inferiority before men. Yes, that is true. That is part of their punishment by God in Genesis 3:16. So they always try to prove otherwise in their acts towards men. When you are with a woman, naturally, you are the numerator while she is the denominator. By nature, the man is above, he is superior to her. So there is a struggle to prove that she is not the one below. she wants to show her superiority which you (the man) do not believe in. This simply explains the reason why whether you offend a woman, or she offends you, you will have to do the appology, for that relationship to keep going. They always believe that if they come first for the appology, you either term them as being "cheap"or degrade them the more. So they will not take such risks. They will have to follow the status quo.

So in a nutshell, this is just the simple reason why women behave the way they seem to behave in relationships.

DISCLAIMER: The above was written being cognizant of the fact that there is always an exception to everything.


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Reasons Why All Christians Should Become Catholics

The reasons why all Christians should become catholics are these:

I had a personal experience: A friend of mine called me an idol worship (as a catholic). When I asked him why, he started enumerating the normal protestants argument - that we worship Mary, worship images, confess sins to human beings etc.

Another friend also told me that Christmas is not christian in nature, that it is a form of idolatory. This is coming from a Jehova witness member, even though I already know before now that so many other Christian denominations buy the idea.


Now today,27th march, 2016, they are all shouting "happy easter"- a celebration of the catholic world. It was catholic church that said that today, 27th march is easter day, and the whole Pentecostal are doing it because according to them , easter is biblical. But when catholic says that 25th December, is Christmas, they say it is idolatry. And they failed to remember that easter is a countdown from Christmas. If Christmas was not celebrated on 25th December, easter would not have been celebrated on march 27.

Easter day is counted by a specific number of weeks or days from Christmas. So if you are celebrating Easter today, march 27,and you are one of those that criticise Christmas and December 25, it means you are confused because being part of easter on march 27,  means you are part of Christmas because both are a celebration of the same catholics (idol worshipers) and easter is always a countdown from Christmas.

It is also pertinent to remember that all Christian celebrations observed in the world all over are all done by the catholic church. No other celebration done by another church is recognised in world all over as a Christian celebration.

In view of this please all Christians should become Catholics, let us all sing with one tone, since directly or indirectly we are all dancing to the tone of catholicism.

OGA Innocent wishes you a happy easter celebration.

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What Actually is Wrong with Women?

I have the intention of writing On "why women behave the way they behave" and that has been buttressed by the recent happening in the celebrity world - The PSquare saga.

That was what prompted me to that question: What in deed is wrong with women?

The Psquare I knew those days of 2010 can never go without the other.

The Psquare I knew those days can never exchanged words with the other

The Psquare I kn ew before cannot recount deeds - about who wrote the song or has the car or who owns the house.

The Psquare I knew then cannot think of separation.

Now, Psquare has gotten married and things fell apart, the centre cannot hold again.
Why,? Because women are now involved.

That is why I ask: What actually is wrong with women?

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Any Woman or Lady that does This shall be Punished By God!

All women or ladies should heed to this clarion call or 'die'.

As a woman must you turn your husband to be enemies of his own family before you become happy in your marriage?

As a married lady or woman, must your husband throw away his own mother and face only you and your own mother before you enjoy marriage?

Ladies and women alike, please I am asking you, what do you gain by punishing the maid in your house - making her/him to eat in the kitchen while you and your own children enjoy the air-conditioned dining; forcing him/her to seat on the rug while your own children own the upholstery seats?

Women, women, please change!

"A man shall leave his father and mother and shall cling unto his wife, and they shall become one" does not mean that your mother-in-law ihas lived her own life, and should go to hell.

Women, you should not be home-breakers, please try out homebuilding.

Remember that one good turn deserves another, what goes around comes around. The law of karma will catch up with you. You will one day become a mother-in-law, and you shall definitely be treated same.

Your husband's siblings can also visit your husband's house (your house, as you people claim); not only your own people.

Women, be good, at least for once! Vanity upon vanity all are still vanity.

Once again, I repeat, women, be good or 'die'.

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why Women Dress the way they dress

Have you ever wondered of this? Why women dress the way they do? Oh sorry, I think the first question in your mind now is: how does women dress? Yea, don't laugh I know that is what is in your mind now.  Its OK, I will tell you, even though you may know more than me.


Women dress gorgeously. Or do I say most women dress very appealing to men. You hardly see a woman that dresses up without showcasing some of her feminine assets. 99.9% of women cannot wear a clothe that does not wrap tightly on her body. It is almost impossible. Even if the clothe comes very loose, the tailor or seamstress must do some work on it before it can be worn on that body. That is women for you. That is the way their own God created them. I hope I have answered the question on how women dress.

Note: am not talking about the decency or the indecency of women for now.

Women dress the way they dress because they want attention. Sorry, they need attention. Women are a set of beings that have a lot of flair for what the eye can see. They are too materialistic and usually fall for mere aesthetics. So they dress to appear classy, appreciable, adorable, presentable and very importantly approachable. Yes, I said it, they dress to appear approachable.

Women know that men are controlled by their sense of sight. Men are controlled by what they can see, while women are controlled by what they can hear, as well what they can receive. So women dress the way they dress to appear appealing to men. There is nothing that makes a woman happy than when you tell her "you are looking good" or "your dressing is fine" especially when two or more persons tell her the same thing.

If you are a married man, you can try it out, by not appreciating your wife when she dresses for an important occasion, ie when she is on her best dress. Just do as if you don't even observe her. It is either she will remind you of it or she will feel bad. But am not responsible for what ever outcome you may get, in case she cuts her pound of flesh that night, by sleeping in a different room. My hand no dey!

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Women are Woe to Men - How?

How women are woe to men

What's the hell is wrong with this guy? What is his problem? Does he not have sisters oR a mother? What has women done to this dude...am sure this kind of person will be homo...

Lol. Those are the stuffs going in your mind. Isn't it? *sips a bottle of soya milk* Don't worry, calm down nothing is wrong OK. I am just interested in getting you educated or probably get educated from you.Hope that's OK. Now let's roll.

How are women woe to men?

First of all, I will not generalise. All women are not woe to men.  I know you have been waiting to hear this. Lol .* sips the final drop of soya milk* *clears throat* don't worry, I know of all these, just try and read on patiently.

Historically, most great men , whenever they want to fall (whenever they are about loosing their fame or greatness, they normally do that courtesy of a woman).

Well the first example is the woman of all women and the man of all men - Adam and Eve. Adam lost it all from God because of Eve.

Adam, have you eaten the fruit I forbed you not to

eat? My Lord, it is the woman you gave me. She gave me and I ate.

Have you seen where the problem started. "She gave me, and I ate". This was the genesis of Adam's woes, and it came from the woman through whom all women came from.

Other biblical examples : Sampson fell to Delila, David fell to Beersheba, What of Herod that killed John the Baptist because of woman?
To mention but a few.


Shall we bring it down to our own daily happenings, a woman can make a man kill his own mother, so many men are in prison because a woman, others commit crimes ranging from stealing, robbery, money rituals, exam malpractices etc; just to satisfy a woman.
Of course so many persons have died, so many are dying and so many have been poisoned, all is same woman - woe-man .


Well the good news is that a woman cannot be a woe-man to any man without his consent.

So he that has ear, let him hear.

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Why Gender Cannot be Equal

WHy men and women can never be equated - Gender equality and why it cannot be attained.

The question is: can gender be equal? That is, can men be equated with women? In other words, can women have equal rights with men? Be it social, family, or what ever ramification.

For me, I do not think so because that is part of their punishment from the creator. Just as the serpent was punished that it will forever go on its belly, and men must suffer to provide for their family and themselves, women did not go free.

Genesis 3:16New International Version (NIV)

¹⁶ To the woman he said,

“I will make your pains in childbearing very severe;
    with painful labor you will give birth to children.
Your desire will be for your husband,
    and he will rule over you.”

 ...Your desire will be for your husband and he will rule over You...That is the final statement.

Women will continue to love men, trying to access equal right with men, but they cannot attain it, because the creator of the creatures has made it so.

So gender equality can never be attained, as far as I am concerned.

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Every Part of A Woman's Body is Meant for Love - (see Reasons)

One thing people must come to know is that a woman is not just a normal being just as men.

Women are special type of beings. Remember women were not created within the same time frame that men were created. If you are conversant with the book of Genesis chapter one and two you will appreciate what I am about to say now. Even if you are not at home with your bible , you can do so this time, so that you don't sit back and say what is the man talking about.

One thing is clear: women were not in the original plan of creation. In fact, women were created out of circumstance. And what is that circumstance? Adam's loneliness - in other words, had it been Adam was not lonely, women might not have come to be.

God has already finished the work of creation and had already instructed Adam to start naming all the creatures. It was then that God noticed, or better put, it occurred to God that "he" needs a "helpmate".

Yes, God saw that none of the created creatures were compatible with the man, so he created a compatible companion- the woman. That is why I say that the creation of women was circumstantial.

And Women were made from the rib of a man. Every part of the woman's body came from a single rib of the man.Hence the woman, the body of a woman, is meant for love. It is meant for companionship. It is meant  to serve the purpose of its creation - helpmate, soulmate, etc.

Therefore it is pertinent to say that every part of a woman's body is meant for love.

So women are hereby enjoined to take not of this little fact and keep this precious jewel in a nice condition that can enable it serve its purpose.

...to be continued...

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Payment of Tithes is not Compulsory - Don't be deceived {See Reasons}

Many christians today have been deluded by their pastors, priests, pastoresses, general overseers and bishops into a compulsory payment of tithe - which is very bad.

Infact, some churches have devised so many means through which they now know the amout each of their church members earn per month, so that at the end of the month, you would be expected to come and submit 10% of that amount to them. As a matter of fact, some churches do have registers for that purpose.

The bad aspect of this is that they use the scripture to deceive the easily-led. The most popular of the scripture passages being MALACHI 3:7-10 - where the bible says that if you do not pay your tithe, that you are robbing God.

Malachi 3:7-10New International Version (NIV)

⁷ Ever since the time of your ancestors you have turned away from my decrees and have not kept them. Return to me, and I will return to you,” says the Lord Almighty.“But you ask, ‘How are we to return?’
⁸ “Will a mere mortal rob God? Yet you rob me.
“But you ask, ‘How are we robbing you?’
“In tithes and offerings. ⁹ You are under a curse—your whole nation—because you are robbing me. ¹⁰ Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,” says the Lord Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it.

The question is: Is Malachi 3:10 the only place that the bible talked of tithe? "bring the WHOLE tithe into the STOREHOUSE". which storehouse? - Pastors house. #smh

What about Deuteronomy 26:12?

New International Version
When you have finished setting aside a tenth of all your produce in the third year, the year of the tithe, you shall give it to the Levite, the foreigner, the fatherless and the widow, so that they may eat in your towns and be satisfied.

International Standard Version
"When you have finished your harvest, reserve the tithe in the third year (the year of the tithe), and give the entire tithe to the descendants of Levi, to the foreigners, to the orphans, and to the widows, so they may eat and be satisfied in your cities.

Most preachers will not see this verse, because the bible says you should not give it entirely to the church -rather to the levites( Pastors and priests), FOREIGNERS, WIDOWS, FATHERLESS - that they may EAT AND BE SATISFIED - that is what the church should be, and not the reverse - where those that have two private jets are making it three, while those that enter taxi are now trekking.

Conclusion:

1. It is not compulsory to pay tithe. Nobody should compel you to do so. It is a christian act that is entirely up to you as a person.

2. If you finally decide to give, then let the bible verse above (deut 26:12) be your guide - ...do not give it entirely to the church -rather to the levites( Pastors and priests), FOREIGNERS, WIDOWS, FATHERLESS - that they may EAT AND BE SATISFIED. Don't mind the greedy pastors that tell you that you MUST give it to them , they are greedy and liars - and of course such persons will not inherit the kingdom of God.

Peace be with you!

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Signs that a Woman is Out to give you Her Heart

Women are emotional beings. Infact to say that women are controlled by emotions is an understatement because, 95% of the life of a woman is not borne from within.

When a woman likes a man, she finds it difficult to say it out, but can perfectly act it out. Therefore the likeness of a woman to a man is action based not verbal.

When a woman is interested in a man, she behaves like a robot. She acts however way the man throws her. She obeys what ever the man says or wishes. Infact, most times she does not have a wish of her own. She will definitely wait for the man to talk, and  immediately dances to his tone.

That gives them joy.

But what about when she is not interested in you; obviously the reverse becomes the case. What ever act of goodness towards her becomes a problem. She nags, and always gets infuriated at the slightest instance of mere disagreement - That's a woman for you.

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