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Wednesday, 29 April 2015

Relationship Tips: Seven(7) types of women you meet at a Joint/Bar

Guys these are the types of women you expect to see at the Bar. Be watchful! "Do not be ignorant of the vices of the devil" *winks*

1. The Alcoholic: you know them, what a man can do, a woman can do it better.

2. The strategic Marketers - you can also call them the desperados. They hang around busy doing nothing. They are simply advertising!

3. The cougar.She's on the lookout for prey, and her specialty is fresh meat. The cougar isn't looking for a sugar daddy, she wants a young guy to prove that she's still "got it." Either she's a divorcee, or an independent older lady who wants to call the shots, without the hassle of being tied down.

4. The corporate Show-runners - usually a younger woman under 40, who is well dressed, primped, and looking like she walked out of a beauty magazine. She is looking for a rich sugar daddy, and she won't even look at you twice if you're under the age of 30.

5. The promiscuous girl.I don't really need to spell this one out, and while it can sound a lot like the desperado, the promiscuous girl is not usually looking for love. She's all about lust. She is usually dressed in something way too risqué for the bar scene, and she'll flash you the sex eyes if she's interested.


6. The stomach infrastructure Girls - You'll buy her drinks, appetizers, cigarettes, cab fare, anything she wants, in hopes that you might get the chance to hook up with her, and then… nothing. She disappears, politely says she has to go, the number she gave you is not in service, and the name she gave you isn't on Facebook.


7. The Bizzy Bodies - These women are there to get crazy, drink until they can't remember the night, and usually display out-of-control boy-crazy behavior. It's best to leave these women to their own devices, as they probably won't remember your face tomorrow anyway.

8. The married woman.The married woman is the one wearing her wedding ring *in some cases*, but is still hoping a guy will check her out or buy her a drink. Then she'll chalk up her marriage to a lonely, sexless, boring existence, and blame her confession on the alcohol.


9. 10 The party girl.The party girl can't be tamed. She's young, she wants to have fun, and that's all there is to it. She could care less about the guys at the bar, unless they are contributing to her having a great night out. She's not necessarily looking for love or sex, as she's just there to enjoy the party.

10. The sideliner.The sideliner is kind of like a wallflower. She usually either sits alone, or with her friends who dragged her out to the bar. She may not even like to drink, and she may often be seen sipping the same drink throughout the entire night.
She's probably the best wife material, if you can get past the fact that her friends are usually dressed more glamorously. Her attire is pretty low key, and her aura may be a bit standoffish.

Once again, do not be ignorant of the vices of the devil.

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Motivational Quotes for you!

Just got some wednesday quotes for you to ponder over:




1. The Price of Justice is eternal Publicity.


2. Always speak your mind, even if you don't mean it.



3. When you have made up your mind, don't confuse yourself with facts.



4. An insincere kiss is worse than an honest blow.



5. Worry is fear without a decision.



6. Good deeds are better than good creeds.


7. Money is something you need in case you don't die tomorrow.
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Tuesday, 28 April 2015

Seven (7) Unbelievable Questions Girls always Wish they Could Ask Guys in Relationships

Girls always wish they could ask these questions to guys in relationships, but mosts times it is too difficult for them. They just can't ask the questions, but wish they could.


Seven (7) Unbelievable Questions Girls always Wish they Could Ask Guys in Relationships




1. First and foremost, What do you want to do in bed? - I want to sleep!




2. Do my stretch marks bother you? Before nko...you no know?




3. Are my legs smooth enough for you? I have a mirror please!





4. Am I good in Bed? Hmmm...I don't know oo




5. When do you plan getting married? 8 years coming!




6. Do you think am a wife material?
NO!




7. How much is in your bank account now?
Five thousand naira only!




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Sunday, 26 April 2015

Apostle Suleiman Explains Why his 2015 Election Prophecies did not come to pass, "at least 40 out of 50 is Passmark" - Must read!

Wonders shall never end. I read this online and decided to share to you my beloved readers.


Please just take time and read, its very interesting.

"Let me tell you something about prophecies, they have leverages and you cannot judge prophecy except you have the spirit of prophecy. If you watch that prophecy manual, I said very clearly that President Jonathan would not win but that the man that would win would not be given. It was stated there. I said a few prophecies about some other people- (Ibikunle) Amosun, (Nasir) el Rufai, (Nyesom) Wike and some other people. Whether a prophecy is fulfilled or not depends on who it's said about. Few of the people prophesied about contacted me. I don't want to call names but they contacted me. You said I won't get this or that, I want it. Can it be reversed?'

I said very well. If you are given certain prayers to make, prophecies can be reversed. If you're given certain things to do, prophecies can be reversed. And actually, there were some people I never thought would reach out to me, those who were Muslims, those who were stubborn leaders, they contacted me. So, I told them 'this is not about man, it's about God. If you're humble enough, we can pray about it.' And we prayed. Like today especially, I've got messages from people who were happy and said 'Oh, thank God, it was reversed.'"


On how the election prophecy was reversed, he said "Like that of the President, I saw him a month before the election and we talked one on one. All I told him was that he wouldn't win. I personally told Jonathan to concede defeat. I told him he would save a lot of heads if he conceded defeat and left. I saw not less than half a million people without their heads.
We have a President who has had two problems–he is politically naive and he doesn't understand the concept of power. We have had a President who has a media team that doesn't understand what they call ceasefire. I told the President one on one that his media team didn't manage him well. I told him, he would not come back. I said the other people had not just got the will of the people, they had got the will of some ministers of God in the place of prayer and few of them had contacted certain ministers of God and we had sat down and discovered we needed change. Inasmuch as and with all due respect to the leadership of the All Progressives Congress, that they are not the change that we need. So our President, the prophecy came for him but he wriggled himself out of it. So prophecies have been given and as they are given, people are now becoming wise, especially when they have seen the accuracy of some prophecies. They would say before I become a victim, let me contact this man. And when they do that, they get the prophecies reversed and it's not in our place as ministers of God to talk."


On El Rufai's win despite his prophecy of loosing at the election for disrespect Jesus "Can you ask me what happened in Amosun's case that I said he would win and he won? Can you ask me what happened in Wike's case that I said he would win and he won? Can you ask me what happened in Ayo Fayose's case that I said I saw him being threatened and removed and presently he's going through an impeachment process? So if we could discuss positives. Like I said, when a prophecy is given, you can wriggle yourself out of it. And let me say something, I'm not tying this to an individual–that you won an election doesn't mean you have been sworn in.

On battling the embarrasement that resulted after Goodluck Jonathan lost the election "I read in the paper and even online that I said President Jonathan would win the election. That to me was a lie that was concocted from hell because I don't understand where that came from. I never said that. Even the Sunday (a day after the presidential election) while the results were still being collated, I said these people would not win but let's hope (Gen. Muhammadu) Buhari (retd.) will rule because I don't see Buhari ruling and even if he rules, I don't see him lasting in power. I repeated it and some of the APC leaders contacted me, I told them verbatim that God told me this man is not well and that you people are evil. You could have brought somebody else. Don't drain life out of this man because you have an agenda to push this man forward. Nobody should die for Nigeria.


Nigeria will keep being Nigeria no matter how many lives are lost. So those pastors who gave the prophecies know where they heard them (from). It's a spiritual matter which is very dicey. Some of the pastors said he would win, some even said what would happen after he wins. I think they have the public to face for an answer. And I will not expect the people to judge them because some of these pastors have given prophecies that came to pass before. Before people now believe them to that extent, there must have been some things they said that came to pass. When certain things are not going the way some people prophesied, they shouldn't be judged. People should only know that 'this time, he missed it, so let's hope next time he gets it right.'

He insists he gets his prophecies from God "You don't blame people when they don't see what you see or understand you. Inasmuch as there are prophets who have abused some things. A man says he's a prophet, he has three wives. A man says he is a prophet, he drinks. A man says he's a prophet, he charges money for prayers. A man says he's a prophet and he collects money from people to prophesy for them. So prophetic ministry has been abused but being smelly in an area doesn't mean there is no soap factory. It means the people have not gone to get the soap and apply it on themselves. I grew up with the late Archbishop Benson Idahosa. He was not, as it were, a prophet. He was not prophetic, telling you predictions and all that. He didn't do that, so you should understand my pedigree; where I'm coming from. I didn't come from a background where you would be told that this would happen tomorrow, so I didn't like it.

The day every prophecy you give comes to pass 100 per cent, you have become God. And I think 46 out of 50 is a pass mark. If a man gives 50 predictions and 40 of them come to pass, that is a pass mark. When 100 per cent of your prophecies are fulfilled, you are not a human being, you have become God and when you have become God, you don't need to be in this world anymore. God will take you home. So when people tell me you said this, I would say what about this and that that happened? They would say I think it's true. So I tell them, let's focus on the things that happened. And let me say something to you. Not all prophecies given in a year get fulfilled that year.


In 2013, I prophesied that the former Central Bank of Nigeria Governor, Sanusi Lamido Sanusi, would become the Emir of Kano. Then he was CBN governor. I had never been so haunted in my life as I was at the time. Bloggers abused me. Some said they had to verify my certificate, some said they had to check if I was well schooled. They said how on earth could a CBN governor become the Emir of Kano when the Ado Bayero had sons to succeed him? It came to pass in 2014. So that's why I said you have to study prophecy. If you don't study prophecies, you can't understand prophecies. There are prophecies of 2012 that are happening now. If they don't come to pass that year, it may be the following year but we have to be calm. But when you have a vendetta against prophecies, if you don't see them come to pass, you get angry and attack the prophet.
Oh by the way, he revealed how president Goodluck Jonathan once brought down his Church over his prophecy.
"In 2012, I said I saw a new president. That was the last prophecy for that year. It was a prophecy of 2012 that was to be out in 2013. So in 2013, I prophesied again that he should not run, that I saw violence. On January 1 of that year, they brought down my church. Jonathan dismantled my church in Abuja. He hit me seriously. They just came and marked it. On what grounds are you marking it? Nothing.
So when people like Father Mbaka said they were threatened, I just laughed because I was not threatened, I was actually hit. They brought down the whole building and told us to leave. We tried to get another land but everyone we approached said they were being threatened."

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Saturday, 25 April 2015

How to Stop your Man from Staring at other women (2 steps)

This seems funny and interesting. Yes, we are here for fun. That's what you benefit from visiting ogainnocent.com.
It doesn't get better anywhere else!




Do you get embarrassed when you walk out with your man and he keeps staring at other women? This could so embarrassing.

It has two meanings:


1) You are not satisfactory to him as a woman.


2)He is womaniser!


But actually, the above two things could be misleading, because it has been scientifically proven that:

-An average man spends 6 months of his life staring at women.

-An average man stares at a woman at least 8 times a day and stares for 2 minutes each time.

So if the above scientific assertions are anything to go by, it means that all men are womanisers and all women are non-satisfactory. Let that be pending for now. I will revisit it on a new blog post.


Now to the message, How to stop your man from staring at other women:


You cannot really do that. It is not possible. But you can only manage it.

That leads us to the next topic:


HOW TO MANAGE YOUR MAN WHO ALWAYS STARES AT OTHER WOMEN

You cannot absolutely stop your man from staring at other women. You can only manage him by the following ways:


1. Make it clear to him - Does he really know that you know about it? Let him know of it. Make it clear to him that this is what he does, and cite instances for him. If he loves you, he will start controlling his eyes little by little.




2. Dress appetising to him at home - Let your man (husband) know that you are woman enough at home. Always feed his eyes with your endowments at home via your dressings in the house! Just dress to kill any time you are with him !!!

I trust women in this one! They are good at that :_)



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A Message to a Heartbroken Girl

Are you in a relationship? Or Dating Someone? Has he dumped you? Or broken your heart? Then this message is for you.

I just hope you find solace and consolation in the message.


A Message to a Heartbroken Girl.



"
Heartbreak is part of reationship. It makes the process or the phenomenon called relationship (dating) so interesting. How? Because without heartbreak you only get struck to one man. Only reducing yourself to a particular aspect of life. You are not allowed to view and explore other faces that life may possess.

But with heartbreak, you get to know that life is not just one way traffic. It has lots of faces. Heartbreak allows you to taste other guys/girls and know what they are like. Garri is not the only food in the world. Heartbreak helps you to stop eating garri and taste some other foods you may not have known how they taste."



All thanks to heartbreak!





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How To Know that the Guy You are Dating is a Perfect Gentleman

Even though there is nothing as perfection in relationships, I have to use the word 'perfect' to achieve my aim. You can replace the word with near-perfect. Let's get down to business.


How To Know that the Guy You are Dating is a Perfect Gentleman

1. A Perfect guy Ensures and guarantees your security. When I mean security, I mean security in all ramifications! I just hope you be able to read my thoughts, its not everything that needs pen and paper...please read and think in between lines!

2. They do not start or initiate fights and/or quarrels in bars.
Gentlemen have less need to prove themselves, because they are often already confident enough about themselves to require beating someone in a fight.


3. A perfect gentleman is Not Ill-mannered. He respects his partner and deserves such in return.
He has good manners. It could be something as simple as holding the door for you on the way into a building. But, whatever the case may be, gentlemen try to behave in a well mannered and kind way.

4. A perfect Gentleman is responsible and accountable - He doesn't have to deny being responsible for your pregnancy. He accepts what he is and rejects what he is not.
A man who is a real gentleman will not try to dodge responsibility for his actions. If he makes a mistake, he will own it and he will apologize. As simple as that!


5. A Gentleman has good communication skills - He always expresses his mind, the way it is. He fears nothing and needs not to hide any feelings. He is a gentleman!

Communication is one important aspect of relationships that needs not to be lacking.


6. A Gentleman has a listening Ear - A perfect gentleman does not only communicate his mind, he also listens and gets to hear from you. Wonderful man!

7. A gentleman appreciates you, the way you are. Gentlemen will often find small ways to make you feel good about yourself. It could be as simple as giving you an effective compliment, or more complex, like giving you validation, helping you feel safe to be yourself or encouraging you to pursue what you want. That is a gentleman! A perfect one! Hold him tight!


8. He understands not only you, but your friends also.

9. He never goes violent - a Gentleman will never lay his hands on you, never! For whatever reason!


10. A gentleman is always seeking for your consent for everything. He can never force it on you! "Honey am so tired now, can't just do it," "alright dear, no problem"! - He is a gentleman grab your copy now!!!

But the question is now: Does a gentleman exist considering the factors above? Answer now! I will aswer my own in a fresh post, remain blessed. Yours truly, Ogainnocent.


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Seven (7) Silly Things Women Do that Attract the Wrong Guys

Do you want to know whether your guy is a wrong guy or not? You can know that by your actions today. Do you also want to know whether you, yourself, is a wrong guys, these signs will tell you.

Most times women usually end up in the wrong hand (guy), the cause I think is due to these actions of theirs below.


Seven (7) Silly Things Women Do that Attract the Wrong Guys


1. Don't you know that the empty vessels make the most noise?
You ignore the quieter guys. Bad boys often tend to be louder, and put on more of a show at bars and clubs. While this may be appealing to you initially, it may be also be a warning sign that he is immature.
Hey! You are with the wrong guy!


2 Don't you know that new experiences matter? Why do you keep going the old way. You will keep getting the same result.
You go for guys who fit a pattern that you are familiar with. This is one of the most basic but overlooked things that you might be doing wrong. If you don't want to end up with yet another emotionally unavailable, toxic bad boy, then don't date another one who is exactly like the last one!


3. Wrong belief. Why do you believe so easily that nice guys are boring? Experience is the best teacher. You will definitely end up in the wrong hand once you believe that nice guys are boring.
Girls often claim that they want to be treated right, but then get sucked in by the allure of the bad boy who puts them down.


4. Agressiveness: Your emotional aggressiveness can end you up in the wrong hand. If you are this type of girl, then you may be scaring the more emotionally mature guys away. Smart guys know that they want a girl around whom they can let their guard down and bond with them; and not dogs! With this hand, you will eventually end in the wrong hand.


5. You give kudos and appreciate bad boys! Wow! That's a direct entry for the bad guys! It could be as simple as laughing at a blatantly inappropriate comment, flirting with him after he makes fun of you or still trying to get him to talk to you after he says something mean to the waitress. You may not realize it, but you might be encouraging bad behavior by rewarding it with your approval.

6. Look Before you leap. Think about it, before you accept him.
It can be all too easy to allow yourself to slip into yet another unhealthy situation just because a hot guy is into you or he doesn't seem all that bad. This is why you really need to give some serious thought to your dating life before you commit to yet another bad boy.
Think, otherwise you end up in the wrong guy.


7. Laziness: if you are a lazy girl, there are no two ways about it. You are heading for the wrong guy, because it is only the wrong guy that can manage you and make you happy amidst your laziness.
Perhaps in your quest to find the perfect combo, you have gotten a little tired. Maybe you aren't focusing as much as you should be, so you are settling


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Seven(7) Things You Must Quit if you want a healthy Relationship/Dating Life

Life is a stage. We come, we go. Therefore we must enjoy every bit of it; our relationships/dating lives not being exclusive.

Seven(7) Things You Must Quit if you want a healthy Relationship/Dating Life

Enjoy!

1. Pretence is a vice, Quit Pretending:
When times get tough, our worst battle is often between what we remember and what we presently feel. Thus, one of the hardest decisions you will ever have to make is when to stay put and struggle harder or when to take your memories and move on. Sometimes you have to step outside of the person you've been, and remember the person you were meant to be, the person you are capable of being, and the person you truly are today. Your relationship and dating life will be spotless.


2. Never Under-estimate your abilities and capabilities:
Being kind to yourself in thoughts, words and actions is as important as being kind to others. Extend yourself this courtesy. Love yourself – your real self. Work through your fears (dive deep), your insecurities (speak honestly and loudly), and your anger (scream into the pillow – not into the mirror, nor the people you care about; they don't deserve it.) Do it and watch your relationship and dating life blossom.


3. To enjoy a healthy relationship, Never regret things in life. Regret begets further regrets.
When you stay stuck in regret of the life you think you should have had, you end up missing the beauty of what you do have. Not all the puzzle pieces of life will seem to fit together at first, but in time you'll realize they do, perfectly. So thank the things that didn't work out, because they just made room for the things that will. You will enjoy your relationship and dating life.


4. To enjoy your relationship and dating life, Never wish yourself bad luck or belittle yourself before others:-
When times get really tough, remember this simple truth: Nothing that's worthwhile is ever easy. And when you're struggling with something that's important to you, and you feel like your life isn't fair, look at all the people around you and realize that every single person you see is struggling with something, and to them, it's just as hard as what you're going through.


5. Be who you are, Never aspire to be someone else:-
Stop comparing where you're at with where everybody else is. It doesn't move you farther ahead, improve your situation, or help you find happiness. It just fuels feelings of inadequacy and shame, and ultimately keeps you stuck. The truth is, there is no one correct path in life. A path that's right for someone else won't necessarily be a path that's right for you. And that's OK.
You will enjoy a sweet relationship and dating life.


6. Avoid Criticisers or judgemental people, what people think about you is none of your business:-
People know your name, not your story. They've heard what you've done, but don't understand what you've been through. So take their opinions of you with a grain of salt. In the end, it's not what others think, it's what you think about yourself that counts. Sometimes you have to do exactly what's right for you and your life, without giving a darn what your life looks like to everyone who doesn't even know you. A true relationship and dating life will be guaranteed.


6. Be Anxious for Nothing, Never think or worry for anything:-
When your fears and anxieties have you looking too deep into things, it creates problems – it doesn't fix them. If you think and you think and you think, you will think yourself right out of happiness a thousand times over, and never once into it. Worrying doesn't take away tomorrow's troubles, it takes away today's peace and potential. And life is too short for that.
A true relationship and dating life will be assured.


7. Never allow Negative People influence, "Do not be ignorant of the vices of the devil:-
It is based on the fact that human history is a history not only of tragedy, but also of success, sacrifice, courage, kindness, and growth. What we choose to emphasize in this complex history will determine how well we live. If we look only for the worst, it destroys our capacity to do our best work. If we remember those times and places – and there are many – in which people have behaved magnificently, and things have gone well, this gives us the energy to act, and at least the possibility of sending this spinning world in a different direction. You will enjoy a good relationship and dating life.


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To round if off: LIFE IS STAGE and WILL BE USELESS WITHOUT A SENSE OF HUMOUR!


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Friday, 24 April 2015

15 Powerful and Romantic things a Girl can Do to make her Guy Melt

Do you want to impress your guy, these are the powerful and romantic ideas that should not be lacking in your relationship.


15 Powerful and Romantic things a Girl can Do to make her Guy Melt

1. Little gifts. Just little. Not expensive ones. Give your boyfriend or girlfriend a special gift every now and then.




2. Candlelight Dinner - Just once in a while.




3. Romantic Vacations - sort of a secondary honeymoon. Engage in one with him!




4. Massages: my hand no dey oo




5. Love letters or Text Messages - It should be well-timed also.




6. Cook together with him - .



7. Create good memories of a Good time past.




8. Weekend outings: A weekend getaway by a lake. If both of you can't spare too much time to take off on vacations every now and then, take a trip down to a place closer home.




9. Go to amusement parks, wild life parks and Have a free times walk arounds.




10. Engage in games - question games / puzzles can help.



11. Shop secretly for him.



12. Video some of your funny and memorable activities in the house and surprise him with it when he is back from work tired; while you prepare his food.




13. S3xual Intimacy: I will not say further on this please!




14. Watch romantic movies together.



15. Tell him you want to Dance for him: surprise him with some skills.





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Seven(7) Types of gift a Girl can give her Guy on Birthdays, Valentines, Christmas etc.

Does it take you too long to figure out some gifts for your guy? Then here are some types of gifts that you can use to surprise him on that his birthday, wedding anniversary, valentine, christmas or what have you.

Do you want to remain unforgettable in his heart, then give him these gifts and you are good to go.


Seven(7) Types of gift a Girl can give her Guy on Birthdays, Valentines, Christmas etc.

1. Frame your favourite picture of you two.This is such an easy gift that also has a lot of meaning behind it. If you have a special man in your life, it's important to make him know just how special he is.


2. Cook a fancy dinner.If you usually cook things for dinner like pasta or you order pizza, then this is a great gift that is also very easy to give your man. Surprise him by cooking him a 3-5 course meal: appetizers, salad, meal, dessert. If you want to get really creative and cute, tell him to dress up in a suit and tie.


3. Make an unfinished photo album for you two to fill.Making a photo album is a really cute, romantic and personal gift to give your man for Christmas. The whole point of leaving it unfinished is because you two can fill it as you continue to grow in your relationship.


4. A gift basket of all his favorite things.One gift that is sure to be a big hit is a gift basket filled with all of his favorite candy, snacks, and other knick-knacks he loves. I don't know anyone who has ever been upset when given a gift basket of fruit or chocolate strawberries or even post-its when he's always running out. So just imagine when he sees his huge gift basket filled with nothing but his favorite things.


5. A fancy razor and new cologne.Most guys tend to use the same razor for shaving their face forever and ever, until they finally have to toss it out and purchase a new one. Also, most guys don't splurge a little and get the most expensive, fancy electric razor, but instead opt for the mid-range and accept that they might get razor burn from time to time.

6. Gift cards.This one is always available last minute, but instead of getting him one gift card for just one place, mix it up, and get him 5-10 different gift cards to different places. You could even get one to one of your favorite restaurants you two like going to, and save it for a special date night.

7. A Car key: Yes I said it, a car key. Do it and you are forever his!

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Do You Really want True Love? Then stop Dating these 8 types of Guys.

These are the ten types of guys a woman should quit dating or stop any relationship with them; if the woman in question really wants true love.

1. To enjoy true love, avoid the "my-mum-told-me" guys.
Have you been wasting your time dating a guy who literally can't do anything without talking to his mom first? It's fine to be close with your family, but if the guy can't seem to make a move without his mommy's approval, steer clear!


2. To enjoy true love, avoid. Musicians who are always glued to their instruments, not just probably there will be no time for you, but you run at a risk of loosing him soon as he is always entertaining people and would attract a lot of admirers that he would hardly resist. Don't make yourself unnecessary a competitor. It won't give you true love.


3. For a true love, avoid the I-too-know people. They can't guarantee true love.
This is the guy who thinks he knows everything, and is always right. This is possibly a nerd who is obsessed with some esoteric scientific topic, and it's hard trying to even have a normal conversation. Maybe what you thought was cute and unique in the beginning, is now actually just impossible and a bit strange, and you realize you do not see yourself growing old with someone like him.


4. A jester or The comedian. For a true love to be achieved, avoid him. Have you been dating a guy because you think he's funny and he can make you laugh? If so, wonderful, but what else do you like about him? The problem with this guy is that usually they love being the center of attention. So much so, that if you go out to eat with a group of friends, you'll eventually find him standing up, putting on a "performance."


5. For a true love, avoid the cheating man or woman. There are so many people in this Universe, and you have so many options and people to meet, that you should not waste a single second with a guy who cheats on you. You need to get out there girl, meet and mingle with men who think before they act, and who treat you with the respect you deserve. If you stay with this guy, you will never have true love, but you will have a very broken heart.


6. For you to enjoy a true love, avoid, a liar. It is infectious and addictive. Often times, liars and cheaters go hand-in-hand. It doesn't matter if he lies to you about eating lunch, or about hanging out with friends, the point is he still lies. Trust is a requirement of true love, and you can't expect to find it in a guy who lies through his teeth. Our bankers and real estate developers, lawyers as well as politicians are good at this. Run if you want true love.


7. Always full of empty and unfulfilled promises.

8. The Miserly : To enjoy true love, avoid misers. This guy is the one who never has money, can't ever do anything because he's broke. It's not like he can't make money, but he has a philosophy of "why should I spend my money when I can spend someone else's?"

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Seven(7) Actions of a Guy that Show that He is Not Interested in You, as a Girl

Have you ever wondered why you show this guy all the possible green lights and then it seems to occur that he is blind.

The truth is that if a guy likes you, he will show it, he will act it and he will live it. But if he doesn't, the reverse is the case.

What are the actions of guys that shows that he does not have the interest of a girl or that he is not interested in the girl.

1. He likes you but not interested in a relationship. How? Wait! Let's analyse it. You are being close to this guy and doing everything for him only wanting him to do same to you, and all he can say is that he likes you but not interested in a relationship...No no! Something is wrong somewhere. He has another girl or he is not interested in you at all, but can't say it.

2. He does not call you. Only texting! Hmm better watch it!

3. He doesn't think you should be 'in a relationship' on Facebook.This guy… Oh man. He might consider himself a 'nonconformist' and says he doesn't believe in Facebook relationships, because they usually cause more harm than good. Or maybe your crush is someone in the public eye, or thinks he is, and he tells you some BS about how he thinks it's best for his career if his relationship status doesn't say anything.


4. He always wants you to go over to his place. You might get really excited when your crush texts you or calls you, asking you to hang out, even if it is just you going over to his place. But if the only things he asks you to do involve you going over to his place, hooking up, hanging out, and watching movies, this guy is NOT into you the way you are into him.


5. When a guy you love only send you message while you are sleeping for you to see it the next morning, he is not interested in you. This one is pretty self-explanatory, because this one is basically not a mixed signal at all, and instead a booty-call. It's pretty obvious that if the only time the guy you like messages you is after midnight, he's not actually into you. Instead, he just wants to be in you, get it?


6. He takes picture of you today only for you to ask for the pictures tomorrow and he tells you that he has deleted them because they are not good. Watch it.

7. He finds it difficult to upload your pictures on social media. That's another sign. Or hardly comments on your pictures when you are sure he has seen them; its a great sign that he is not really proud of you. Watch it!


8. He is always responding very late to your messages. Always telling you he is busy! Hmmm a guy that loves you and wouldn't want to miss you cannot joke with your messages. No matter the business, you must have a time in his life. That is the truth of the matter.


He that has ear, let him hear!


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Do You Want to Date Someone Older than You? Here are Tips

Have ever considered going for someone whose age gap with yours is so wide? Don't you know how to go about it? You can try this ways am about to give. It could work out.
You are 25 and she is 39...wow, you try oo. 14 years gap, check out these tips.


Ways to date someone older than you.


1. Have a sense of humour: when dating someone older than you, Make laugh of the age saga and never be too emphatic on age. Joke about grey hairs, or about you still being in diapers when your partner got his or her first kiss. Having a positive and carefree attitude about it can help to keep things light.


2. Have a common Ground of Understanding: Don't be too emphatic on BBM, whatsapp, facebook, twitter when you are dating someone older than you; when you know she is not on those platforms. Or she may not know how to use them or find them interesting.
Find an interesting common platforms that both of you can enjoy like, travelling, swimming, etc.


3. Avoid Pessimists: Avoid people who will always criticise and judge you anytime you are dating someone older than you. They could be your friends. Simply detach from them...you got it? Just avoid negatively minded people anytime you are dating someone older than you, they are infectious.

4. Meet and communicate with people in the same category. I mean people dating older partners too. You are likely to find solace in their interactions. Share ideas and problems. Solve problems together...got it? Alright! Let's move on.


5. Mutual respect: I hope you don't disrespect her simply because you are dating her, forgetting that she is older than you. Also respect Him even though you are older than him...he is definitely the boss. Mutual respect is a pre-requisite in any relationship/dating that will thrive.


6. Maturity matters: Play mature game. You are dating a mature person. Always be resolute in your decisions and talks, do not always beat around the bush like small kids. What do you want? Say it! Hit the nail at the head. Simple!


7. Help and complement each other: It is not always the duty of the guy to do all the spending when dating an older someone. Complement each other. He must not take you out. Take her out also. That is why he is with you.

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Thursday, 23 April 2015

Seven (7) Super-Powerful Reasons Why Men Get Rejected by some women they Like/Toast

I know you may not actually believe it for now. But it is true. You went for her, she turned you down. It is insulting though.

But what could be responsible? It might be in you. Check yourself dude!

Here are seven(7) super-powerful reasons why men get turned down by women they approach.


1. Arrogance :- Even if the lady is arrogant. She still wants a cool guy. Guy your arrogance man. Be cool and cute!



2. Body odour: 99% of women hate this. The remaining 1% are those that have the body odour too. So it fits both of you. Body odour is like a nightmare to women. There are so many perfumes and body spray in the market. Do yourself some kindness.




3. Lack of self-confidence: lolz. My man you are a learner. Women hate learners.


4. Too Much talk: The more you talk, the more you might talk nonesense. Talk less than necessary. Let your actions do the remaining.



5. Simply incompatible: you are simply not her type. Don't worry check around. You will find another girls.



6. Language: The way you talk in this 21st century also matters. Depending on the girl you are toasting.




7. Not You class: she is simply not your size. Shoe get size. Go for your size. Sometimes, a guy is just not what a woman is looking for. It could be something about personality or maybe she's just not physically attracted to him. Maybe the chemistry isn't there for her. There's not much you can do about this, other than just accept it.






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Puberty: Seven (7) Signs of Puberty Our Females Should Know. Never Ignore this!

If you are a woman, and you are seeing a lot of changes in your body. Don't be scared or bothered, you are not alone in the journey.

Your mum, aunty, senior sisters are all into it. So relax and enjoy it while the offer lasts! :-)


Signs of Puberty in Females:


1. Increase in body size and Weight: there is an obvious and rapid body growth during puberty in females.
First, you may notice your feet and hands getting bigger. Next, the arm and leg bones grow, making you taller. You may gain some weight to match the increase in your bone size.
Then you start looking at the mirror steady. It is a sign of puberty!


2. Development of the mammary gland. Eh! We call it mammary gland not breast :_) you can also call it Milk Industry lolz.

At first you may notice what feel like little buds, or swelling, under your n!pples. After that, your breasts will gradually get bigger and fuller and may become a little sore. Wearing a bra will be important so you can have the proper support for your breasts.
(Check back later for a guide to Bra size)

3. Development of the Lower centres: uh! I don't really know how to talk about this. But you really understand me? Yes you did :_) but I know you want me to say it :_)spoilt girl! I will still tell you guys shah!
Your genitals, or private areas, also grow and change during puberty. Your outside parts (the vu!va) are enclosed by two sets of "lips." The larger lips have hair. The inner, smaller lips don't. These increase in size a little bit. Inside your body, the vag!na is getting longer and the uterus is getting bigger. I have not seen it before oo :-)


3. Your Menstruation/ Period starts: Yes, I hope you have read my posts about your first period and other things you need to know before your first period? If you haven't read it here
http://www.ogainnocent.com/2015/04/seven-7-powerful-questions-young-girl.html
You may not be sure what's normal, but there's no need to worry. When you first start menstruation, it can be unpredictable for the first two years.


4. Body Discharges: Your body sweat glands become larger and you release more waste products in form of sweats. You have to learn to keep neat.

It is a sign of puberty in females. It is not a curse.


5. Hairs: I hope you don't have a phobia for hairs. Because it is coming. Its time to get a shaving stick and get ready to keep neat always.
It is a sign of puberty!


6. Skin Changes: yes, your skin produces more oily and becomes more smooth. You become a little bit refreshed and appear appealing :_). I am still innocent oo

It is a sign of puberty!


7. You Begin to do guy for guys:- Do you think it is not part of it? It is part of the signs of puberty in females. They will start adding style and ego to their lifestyle.
If you call them they will change their face, and ask with a shrill suprano voice "Hi". It is part of the puberty signs.

8. Body movement changes, walking style changes. She starts shaking her behind while she cat-walks.
It is a sign of puberty!

9. Voice becomes Shrill and seductive: That is it. There voice will change. It becomes more appealing and more bedroom-like. All these are signs of puberty.

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Fifteen(15) Powerful, Mind-blowing and Magical Quotes to Spice up your Relationship

According to Francis Beacon, knowledge is power. If you are not informed, you are deformed.

In your daily engagements in your relationship life, you need these quotes to keep going.

Fifteen(15) Powerful, Mind-blowing and Magical Quotes to Spice up your Relationship and Dating Life.


1. Some relationships are like glass.  It's better to leave it broken, than to hurt yourself more by trying to put it back together.

2. Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.


3. Love is not about sex, going on fancy dates, or showing off.  It's about being with a person who makes you happy in a way nobody else can.


4. The most beautiful thing is to see a person you love smiling. 


5. Being alone does not mean you are lonely, and being lonely does not mean you are alone.


6. Choose your relationships wisely.  It's better to be alone than to be in bad company. Bad company corrupts good moral.


7. Fall in love when you're ready, not when you're lonely.

8. Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to. Always expect heart break in love.


9. Don't wait for the right person to come into your life.  Rather, be the right person to come to someone's life.

10. It is okay to be angry.  It is never okay to be cruel. Be tamed!

That's part 1.

Fifteen(15) Powerful, Mind-blowing and Magical Quotes to Spice up your Relationship

Part 2.

11. Never do something permanently foolish just because you are temporarily upset. Lack of emotion control is a vice.

12. Silence is often the loudest cry.- Talk less than necessary.


13. A silent hug means a thousand words to the unhappy heart.


14. True happiness comes from within, not from someone else.  Be happy today.


15. Don't choose the one who is beautiful to the world, choose the one who makes your world beautiful.


16. An Honest blow is better than an insincere kiss.


17. Just because it didn't last forever, doesn't mean it wasn't worth your while. It is worthwhile.


18. The mind is a bag. Don't allow anyone to search your bag. Say what you mean and mean what you say.


19. Falling in love is not a choice.  To stay in love is. Beware of Love.


20. You don't really need someone to complete you.  You only need someone to accept you completely.

More to come!

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Ten(10) unreasonable Reasons Why Men Cheat

Have you ever thought of it? Why actually do men cheat. The reasons I tell are very flimsy as you will find out soon.

"Men are dogs" as one girl use to tell me. But why are they dogs, I asked? Even though I had to be parochial as a man, I cannot also deny the fact, that men cheat.

Here are the ten (10) unreasonable and flimsy reasons,and excuses why men cheat.

1. She is no longer interesting in bed. Eeh? Really? Who made her uninteresting? One side effect of s3x is that there is always an urge and taste for a man to want different women. There is this believe that each girl has a different taste. Could that be true? Is it not the same food, containing the same ingredients? How come it tastes differently. Lol.


2. Mehn! I don't trust this girl, she may be doing it too. What? You don't trust her? You think that she might be doing it too? That's a very big breach in trust. If you are suspecting that she might be doing it, why not find out? "There are many ways to kill a rat." Or don't you know? Find out! Don't just reciprocate what you aint sure of. She might be innocent like me...hehe!


3. Oh mehn! This girl has just forgotten me. He feels ignored and uncared for. In this case I blame the girl in question, she doesn't know her work. You don't know your duty.


4. Peer pressure is another factor that has ruined many youths today. "My guys are doing it" and so what? Is that how gullible you seem to be? Why can't your guys say, "this our guy is not doing it, let's imitate him!" Or must bad company always corrupt good morals?


5. Another inexcusable excuse men give for cheating is that "my girl is not good in bed". Ok. Teach her then! Rome was not built in a day! That girl you are going to that supposedly has the technical know-how to give it to you did not come to the world with it. She was taught, whether by her man or female colleagues. And you the girl, try to know what he wants at a particular time and give it to him. Be innovate and appetizing!


6. I cannot say no! Probably the lady is a working class and is nice to a young guy who cannot affort to say No to such a goody!


7. I am doing it codedly! She doesn't know! It it aint going to hurt her. For how long? She will find out one day! Moreover, what about your conscience?


8. He doesn't love you anymore. He wants to leave you! And the best way to go about it is to make you leave by yourself by doing what you hate. Ladies you also should be reading the handwriting on the wall and always act timely!


9. Just want to have a new experience: really? Ok. Well done!


10. It is not my fault. It is nature. According to the popular artist, Akon, he once said via twiiter that the reason why men cheat is because we are natural breeders. We are meant to breed and procreate! Lol. Alright then! Continue breeding!


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Wednesday, 22 April 2015

Ten(10) Mistakes Women make in Relationships Thinking that they are wise!

The worst mistake one can make in life is when "you do not know, and do not know that you do not know". Most of the times our female folks mistranslate some things in relationships and tag it 'wisdom'.

These are what I am about to highlight now. I term them " ten (10) mistakes women make in relationships thinking that they are wise. "

1. Being overtly too demanding : Don't worry, I will explain. Here I mean making it clear to the guy that you are in need. It doesn't work dear...Allow the guy to detect the handwriting on the wall. Show the signs but don't over-do them. You can go by giving him first, then allow him...you hardly achieve your aim by always calling him and demanding for money. It does not work, even if it does work, his love will be very superficial... He is paying for what he will reap!


2. Lies: Definitely, both parties are party to this. Both the boyfriends and the girlfriends do lie. But for now let us concentrate on the ladies.

Don't you think that he may be aware of some of your lies and will just keep quiet? It aint cool to lie. Be sincere dear, it doesn't cost a thing.


3. Disappointment: How can you tell him you are coming and do not show up? Without even pre-informing him?
He has already prepared his psychology for your reception, and you disappoint. Do you know what that means? You are putting him to the test, he might call your alternative...yes, he has an alternative...and that could be risky!
Dear, promise and fail doesn't make you wanted the more, rather it makes him loose confidence in you. It aint cool in any relationship. Let your yes be yes, and No be No. Ok?

4. Too much flirt: Your boyfriend will enjoy it. But once it becomes too much of you, he will not find you attractive again. He will just be using you to set up for his guys. Even if you are a party freak, try to pretend before him, let him be the one to remind you of the party for the night. If you do it yourself, you have sent a wrong signal - it aint cool baby!!


5. Forcing your fellow female friends on him. You think you are wise? He called you to meet him at a joint, and all you could do was to summon your room mate and her friends. Why? Did he call all of you? He know that you have people like that! But for now, he called only you. Obedience is better than sacrifice!

6. Abandonment/Neglect : If you try and do this! You will have to receive a query : "what are you doing in my man's house?" from your fellow woman next time you visit him. To be forewarned is to be forearmed.

7. Poor communication : He sends you credit, but you don't call him. You only flash. Who do you call with those cards he is sending you? You are not wise baby! That's not wisdom! Communicate regularly with him. It is a key to faithfulness!

I have finished! He who has ear, let him hear! It is the Lord who speaks!

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Ten (10) Powerful Reasons why you Should NOT give Your Ex- a Second Chance

Have you been jilted? Or divorced? Or separated? And now he/she wants you back, heh! Common be careful, its easier said than done.

What do you think of these reasons why you should not give your Ex a second chance.

1.Your partner may have changed, but how are you sure. He may be pretending. Do not just trust like that. It is easier said than done.
Remember, once beaten twice shy! Then what of twice beaten...?


2. What if she/he is coming to steal what he/she remained before? My dear it is risky!

3. Do you think there will be trust? Don't you think that both of you will be living in perpetual suspicion? Don't you think so? My Brother, my sister, please think!

4. There is nothing new under the sun again! Why Not go for new partners at least to taste another sweet part of the world, than eating your vomit? Or don't you agree with me that there are a thousand better partners out there?

5. What will you tell your family members as the reason for having her/him back? Especially if your case involved the family! Don't you know they won't be happy with that? They will definitely think that you are under charm - please don't go there!

6. Your friends nko? They will hate you, because you have simply proven to them that you are so gullible, no matter what the reason could be.


7. You are likely to enter the same problem again. This is if he has not changed, as I mentioned in No.1, which is a very big possibility? And what will you tell your people this time...that you made a particular mistake twice...? You are simply a f**l!

8. Your relationship will definitely not be enjoyable. Yes, because there is nothing new! Or do you think there is anything new? For me there is nothing! And you won't enjoy it.

9. Your partner will remind you of your past any day you people mistakingly have a disagreement. That will be a worst injury! He/she will tell you "you cheap thing, is it because I managed to accept you back?" That day you will remember the day you were born! I repeat, once beaten, twice shy!

10. He/she might come with a different plan/purpose that is not in line with yours. By then its already late. You can't divorce her/him again...if you do then, you don't need to be told what people will see you as.

A word is enough for any wise man!
He who has ear, let him hear!
It is the Lord who speaks!


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Twelve (12) Perfect ways to Mend a Broken Heart (Part 1)

Have you been jilted? Used and Dumped? Disapointed by your partner? Heart-broken?...or what ever, don't worry calm down and read these and apply them.

1. Allow the pain, give the pain a chance - after it you come out stronger and wiser. Don't pretend or beat around the bush. Accept the pain, let it run through you.


2. You are the only one responsible for your own happiness. Tell yourself this. Keep reminding yourself of this.



3. No man or woman is qualified to make you unhappy. Yes, have a little boast about yourself. Tell him or her that she/he is NOT qualified to make you sad. Not at all!



4. Don't rush into a new relationship again. Detach for a while. Do things yourself. Stay yourself. And watch where amendments are imminent in your life.



5. Advice someone else. Look around you, find someone who may be in your shoe. Advice her/him. And you see yourself being a boss, and adviser!



6. Cry first, then laugh: Haven't you noticed that a child feels more calm and relaxed and would always want to sleep after crying? What do you think is the cause? Try cry over it, the tears going from your eyes are carrying the pains. You will feel relieved after the cry, then find something to amuse yourself...what a magic!!!


There are twelve (12) tips prepared for you. I will be back with the remaining six. Stay tuned!

I love you'all!





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Twenty-one (21) Unusual things Men die for in Women, but Women don't know

I just want to give a rundown of about twenty-one things about women, though not so obvious and usual, but men crave for them.

1. The Beautiful voice that always picks the call "Hi "


2. The well packaged, sweet-smelling long hair that he can always use his finger to run through it.


3. The soft hands holding him while walking on the street.


4. The beautiful image that he sees when he mistaking opens your door while you are changing clothes.

5. The powerless girl that tries to beat him up in *** When you tease him and behave sweetly one second and turn into a spoilt, noisy brat the next second!

6. When you initiate *** or take whole control of the whole thing.

7. The beautiful figure he always sees playing with puppies and bingos.

8. The cheerful and gorgeous baby running from far, opening her arms to give him a one-in-a-million 360 degrees (hug).

9. The loving and caring girl that refuses to leave him alone in the hospital bed.

10. The smooth and sumptuous oranges (bre**t) upon which the head is laid any time he is troubled or sad.

11. The soft, smooth fingers caressing and dressing the recently-shaved beards.


12. The long fingers with that red painting on the nails removing pimples from the rugged face :-)


13. The figure he sees fanning him in such a hot afternoon, smiling at the same time.

14. The voice that always says, "honey your food is ready", "he dear, come and take your bathe, your water is getting cold".

15. The beautiful voice that sings from the choir stand on sundays.

16. The beautiful damsel disturbing and tickling him any time he wants to sleep or read a book.

17. When she's eats that special food she likes and the smiles that follows the mmm...m

18. The girl that adores him publicly before his firends.

19. The way you walk out of the bed room in the morning lackadaisically and clumsily after the night that you guyz "prayed" lolz. :_)

20. The girl always getting jealous and asking him about that particular girl in his workplace.

21. When you make up funny nicknames and pet names and address your boyfriend using those words while laughing at the same time.

22. ETC.


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Seven (7) Unthinkable Secrets of Men Women Should Know about

Do you think men do act how they sound in the mouth? Hmmm...you are far from the truth. "The bitter kola is not as sweet as it sounds in the mouth."

Here are seven (7) unthinkable secrets of men women should know.


1. Hard-to-get: Who even told you men like hard-to-get girls? One particular fact about life is that human beings is trying to make life easy. That is the essence of of our existence - to solve our problems. Men always want it the easy way. So make it easy for the men.


2. Compliments: lol, most of you women think that its only you need "you-are-not-looking-bad" compliments. No way, "what is good for the goose is definitely good for the gander".


3. HeartBreak: Men suffer heartbreak, but not as severe as women. We are meant to be tough and enduring...men don't cry hopelessly when jilted, because "we can have another 'you' in a minute"...hehe


4. Men normally act to impress, and not in a natural way. So "oh, that guy is so caring" may be deceptive. He is investing in what he wants. "Anaghi eji akapata atufuo aba ogaranya"-Igbo adage. (Spending your money as it comes cannot make you wealthy)

5. Men do not always wanna initiate *** they don't always want to be on top. YEs, men are the boss, but always want to be the apprentice in *** (just hope you understand me, if you don't, sorry).


6. Men normally keep two types of GFs.
- Surebet ones (they are always there and, are used any time he wants them)
-Real Ones ( the one giving him tough time, that he would like to marry)

7. Women like lies more than the truth. So men give them what they want.

Guy: I was on my way back from Abuja yesterday, wanted to check on you, your number was not connecting.

Girl: really, ehya, so sowie! So where you now?

Guy: home, have a conference to attend in Lagos tomorrow, may be you can come now, I will drop you while going back to Lagos tomorrow.

...You go, he collects, drops you tomorrow, and goes back to his house. He is back from lagos conference. Lolz.

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Tuesday, 21 April 2015

Ten (10) Powerful And Real Reasons Why Women Cheat

Have you ever wondered why women cheat, to start with? This post I am sure will go controversial, because women hardly believe they cheat the more. To them, men are dogs.

However, I am not here for comparison. I'm here to upload the real and truthful reasons why women cheat. Simple and short! Hehe!

The reasons are not far-fetched you know...


1. Urge for Happines - They just broke up today. They want to be happy again tomorrow, thus cheating is imminent.


2. Too Much Pressure - She has no option than to just "give it a trial" when she is being approached by a hundred men in a day. Body no be firewood nah!


3. Non-performance or Impotency on the man's part - What do you expect, she needs to satisfy herself. Sorry to such a man though!


4. Non-attractiveness of the man - of course she no longer finds you attractive in the midst of cute approaching men...


5. Women are s3xually attracted to any man that makes or can make her feel 'good'. Yes, I mean "good" or may be 'better' :)


6. Dirtiness and Untidiness of her man - She will definitely meet a cuter and tidier man in her workplace - by that you are in trouble!


7. Too much value for oneself - women value themselves too much that they think they are too good. Hence they tend to fall any "good guy" that comes around.


8. Money - Women are like bees. They always fall where there is honey. "Throw the honey and attract the bees."
(Ladies pls don't be annoyed, that of men is coming soon)


9. Hormone Action: They are aroused. There is no available partner, they tend to fall for the available, even if he is not his man. She needs it, she falls...sorry!


10. Woman Power: Have you ever wondered how easy the stuff will be when it is the girl toasting the guy. Everything happens with ease, with little stress...I am sure many guys pray for this. :_)

...And the list keeps going.



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Seven (7) Things You Should NOT Do to a Woman, otherwise you Put Her in the Mood.

A woman is one of the most flexible set of beings. There are things you should not do to them, otherwise you put her in the mood.

If you misinterprete this messgae as "Things to do to put a woman in the mood" na you sabi.

Now to the message: Seven (7) Things you should never do to a woman, otherwise you put her in the mood.

1. Never Create a Unique s3x bedroom - lightening candles, cool music, and glass of wine. This is very dangerous, as it can easily make her go volatile.


2. Getting Her Seductive Outfits. S3xy outfits can remind her how s3xually endowed she is. By getting her some of those s3x-appealing dresses, you remind her that she is appetizing, and sumptuous.


3. Sensual touches also, is unavoidable. A woman hardly escapes it. A masterful way to begin foreplay, without focusing on s3x but on emotional connection, is by giving her a sensual massage. This may not just end up well, it started as a gentle unserious play, but will likely end up as something profound (hope you understand what I mean).


4. Romantic Dinners/Lunch : You know that she is back from work, tired and stressed up. An yo know that it is already 7pm. And you take her to a mind-blowing dinner, whether outside or prepared at home. She will fall. If anything happens, that is your business. Don't say I did not tell you.


5. Buying Her Gift is also a magic. Those gifts are for sure, greek gifts. If you continue like that, a point will reach and she will not afford to hurt that "caring" fellow...hmmm...caring abi, you have achieved your aim. Don't say Ogainnocent did not warn you.


6. Showers together: haa!!! This is bomb. You mean you want to have shower with her and...just like that? What could be happening in that bathroom? Only God knows.


7. Kissing Her: Kissing a woman is very sensitive. It is a powerful s3x arousal tool. If you don't want anything to happen, avoid kisses. It may be casual kiss or peck...whatever, it may not come out fine.

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Seven (7) Cute and Mature Ways of Treating a Girl in Her Period

Goodmorning ladies and gentlemen. Today, or probably this time, I wish to share us the ten powerful, cute, s3xy, tested-and-trusted ways to handle a girl in her period/menstruation.

As usual, No long story in ogainnocent.com. Everything is usually direct to the point.

Seven (7) Powerful and cute ways to handle/treat a girl in her period.

1. Don't get annoyed with her or scold her for anything! - it makes her feel emotionally unstable. And that doesn't worth it this time.


2. She is removing blood. Never mention anything about blood to her. It might irritate her, make her feel sad.

3. Do not ask her careless questions that might take her to her mood. Also be careful and cool when answering her questions.

4. Don't even think of sleeping with her this time of her period. It is a sign of disrespect. Be patient with her. - the patient dog eats the fatest bone. Unless she indicates wanting to get naughty, then you are called to duty:-)


5. Ask Her what you can do to help her out. She needs care this time. Render it to her, it is a duty!


6. Give her gifts that befits the period. Gifts like tissues, pads, Blood-giving foods can also help as she is loosing a great deal of blood in her system. You should have known her favourite food, get it for her.


7. Spend time and Watch Movie with Her: She is in a painful mood. She needs relief, watch movies with her, but avoid horror movies and films with magical undertones because of her hormones.




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Seven (7) Powerful Questions a Young Girl Should Ask Before Her First Period/Menstruation.

A woman is not suppose to witness her period unawares. The wise young girls who must be approaching the ages of 10-13 must be curious to have an overview of what it is like to have a period (menstruation).
A woman's first period is called Menarch, while the last period is called Menopause.

1. How old will I be when I get my first period?

I have said it before though. The age factor possesses a lot of variations. Some girls start their first period at 8 or 9 years old, while others don't start it until they're 15 or 16. The average age is 12 or 13. The best way to figure out when you may start menstruating is to look for other signs of development, and ask your mom or older sister when they started their first period.

2. Is it compulsory that my period will fall in the same time my mother had Hers.

Yes, to some extent. There is scientific evidence showing genetic factors influence the onset age of menstruation.

3. I am 13, my First period has not yet come. Why?

There could be some delays in the release of eggs from the follicles.
Every girl has her own biological make-up and yours is different from your friends' own.


4. What are the signs to see to know that my first period is imminent?

The signs and symptoms of a first period is not far fetched. A summary of the signs and symptoms of a first period is thus: First, your breasts will start to develop, and hair may begin to grow in the pubic area (between your legs) and in your armpits. During this time you may notice a whitish discharge from your vagina. This is normal. A few months after that, you'll likely start your first period. When it actually begins, you might feel dampness on your underwear, which is probably a few drops of blood.

5. How Long does a Period/Menstrution Lasts?

On the average it lasts just within 4-5 years. Some though go as long as 7-8 days. While some end their just within 3-4 days. It depends on body structure and oestrogen level.


6. What if I Fail to Witness My First Period even though I am appraoching 16?

If you are up to 16 and have not witnessed your first period, it is now a health complication. Girls who reach the age of 16 without menstruating may have primary amenorrhea(lack of menstrual flow). Primary amenorrhea requires careful medical testing, diagnosis and therapy, so I suggest you consult your family doctor.


7. How Can I Prevent or Stop my Period/Menstruation?

It cannot be stopped naturally. It is a natural phenomena that should be cherished and loved. So enjoy it while it lasts. Otherwise, you can use pills and contraceptives, ask a pharmacist.


8. When Will this Period/Menstruation of a thing Stop?

It will Stop at the age between 40 and 50 years. Depending on how late or how early your own started. The end is called menopause (your last period).

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Sunday, 19 April 2015

Ten (10) Powerful Things Women Look out for in a Man before Falling!

Are you toasting a lady? Is she finding it difficult to fall for you? Then you have got some questions for yourself. Ladies have a lot to protect, they can't just agree to you; just like that, it is not done.

What are the ten(10) powerful things women look out for before falling.

1. Appearance Matters: How do you actually dress. Be well groomed. Dress well and look cute and sweet. It works like magic. You never know when you'd bump into the woman of your dreams. It's a simple tip, but something almost all guys never focus on. Groom yourself well with quality man products and complex perfumes that smells great on you. Simply put, you are adressed the way you dress.


2. Powerful Body framework: This is also great. It should not be new to you any way. But most men do over-gym themselves and appear scary. Go build those biceps and those deltoids in your shoulders. When you work out, you look healthier and radiant, and clothes look oh-so-sexy on you. Indulge in good exercise and body building walkouts.


3. Have an Alluring sense of Humour: Don't be too dull. Let her keep smiling for your presence. Don't let her stop laughing. Have a good sense of humour.


4. Money in the Pocket: You must have heard of the popular axiom "No money, no love". It is not a joke. It is a fact. What do you do for a living. How much is in your bank account. They matter a lot to a lady.


5. A Prestigious Personality: How valuable is your personality to the people around you. How great is their respect to you. A woman will always like to be respected and will never date a man that is worthless to the people. Improve your self-worth. Self-esteem matters.


6. Morale (Confidence): How stable are you as a man? Are you a coward or do you have confidence in yourself? A woman wants a man that will assure her safety in all ramifications. In fact, that is one important thing women look for. Be confident in yourself. Be bold and courageous in every action you take as a man, even if you fail, accept failure with confidence and high morale- it makes girls trip for you.


7. Incompatibility Complex: Yes, this is a very big threat to healthy relationships. Always take time to do feasibilty study of yourselves and get deeper understanding of yourselves. This is because sometimes no matter how loved by a girl or how you love a girl, some things will still be missing. You guys may not actually feel fulfilled. That is the incompatibility factor. It is important to a woman. Check yourself - What are your hobbies, Likes, dislikes etc.


8. Good Body features: This is not just the muscles of a thing. Now we are talking about a good look. Well shaved beards, well cut and carved, in a nice attire, coupled with a well-polished shoe; Perfumes then summarizes it. Appear charming and s3xy.


9. Good Speaker: You need to be a good speaker. Both public and private speaking. Be good and impeccable in your conversations. Let girls be always wanting to hear you speak. Have a good command of your language. And you are good to go.


10. Be Resolute and Principled. Don't be a swinging pendulum that can always be pushed over. Be assertive in behaviour. Have an ego and believe in yourself and your decisions. As hard as this may seem, be the man who can put someone else in place when they overstep the line or misbehave with you. Be a no-nonesense man in character and see girls dying for you.


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Five (5) Powerful Questions a Girl should never miss to ask Her Man

In any relationship, you never finish knowing yourselves. You keep asking questions and getting answers.

In these article, I want to unleash five (5) powerful questions a girl should never miss to ask her man. Five (5) powerful questions that makes a relationship more romantic.

1. What do you do on weekends? - Wow...nice and revealing. It is an indirect call to duty. A wise man should understand.


2. How long did your longest Relationship last? - why on earth does she really want to know. May be it is because history matters.


3. When was your Last relationship, how long have you been without a partner?
- she really wanna know how long you can cope without her. Be wise my man!


4. What do you do for a living? Do you enjoy it? - She wants comfort. She is looking far into your future, she is probably trying to settle down with you.



5. How do you manage times of stress and Anger? - She doesn't want to marry a panel-beater that will beat her up in times of distress. No woman likes emotional partners.


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Seven (7) Powerful Behaviours Women cannot do without, Men cannot Change, But accept!

There are actions and behaviours of women that are naturally inclined to them. Men hardly change them. They have no option than to accept them that.
As usual, no long story, let's get down to business.

Things Men Just Need to Accept About Women.

1. Emotional output: Women expression of emotions is to a great extent unchangeable. It is naturally in them. Unlike men who usually express their emotional boredom or radicality via alcohol, s3x or doing hard jobs; Women however, often express their emotions verbally. They talk about their feelings to their friends, they talk about their problems to their families. They may even seek the listening ear of a stranger they happen to talk to. Sometimes, you may even wonder how they have so many emotions, but they do. And they are much more likely to process them differently than you will.

2. Going to the bathroom together. Yes, I know this may seem strange, but keep reading and grab where I am going to. Unlike men who finds it unusual of going to the bathroom together, it is not so in women. Women however, love to go to the bathroom together. They do this for two reasons. First, they usually synchronize their breaks so as not to miss out on any of the conversation. And two, women like to gussy up when they go to the bathroom, so they like having a female friend around to tell them if their outfit looks okay or if they can borrow some lipstick...lolz.


3. The third behaviour of women which men cannot change is cuddling. Women love to cuddle. Although cuddling may seem annoying or unnecessary to you a lot of the time, many females LOVE it. That is their nature. It is in women to cuddle. Remember, women tend to be nurturing and affectionate, and they like to reinforce their bond with another person. This is why cuddling tops the list of many a woman's favorite things to do. So, men should not even bother trying to prevent or change this.


4. Commitment: A woman will always start a row and ask you to finish it. Women like commitment. They hate public things - be it article or their man. They always want it or him to be called her own.
However it is risky as a man to get yourself committed to a woman. It is never advisable. Most women want commitment. Although committing to a girl might be a big fear of yours, the chances are that the girl you are dating wants commitment. Women don't like to feel like they are being used for their bodies, or that they are just another passing fancy. They want their emotional investments to be more worthwhile than just another one night stand. So, they crave commitment from guys in order to know that they are valued and are safe in the relationship.


5. Social Outings. You cannot really take it away from them. It is in them. Starting from parties, weddings, birthdays etc. They love it like mad. Women love to fantasize about the perfect dress, the beautiful diamond ring, and getting married in front of all of their friends and family. Being a bride can be an extremely special thing for a woman. So, even if you are stressed out by all of the proceedings, it may be best not to show it. The wedding could be the most important moment of her entire life.


6. Flamboyance : There is no woman that doesn't want to be noticed. That is their own innate character. Yes, it is so probably because they are women. They want you to take them out. Women want you to make them feel important. Women want you to show their friends that she is important, beautiful and valuable. So if your wife or partner is always telling you to follow her to a friends birthday or wedding, never find it as an encroachment into your own time. Do it for her. It is their nature. You can't change it. Accept it.


7. Materialism. Women are simply materialistic. Sorry, women are excessively materialistic. They love beautiful articles like clothings, ear rings, watches, cars, phones, shoes, you name it. It is in the nature of women to admire material things. They are born with it. My dear and fellow man. Do not think of changing it. You cannot change it. Simply accept it that way.

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How to Kiss Romantically and Pleasurably {For Married people only}

One of the major reasons of broken homes and shattered relationships is lack of romance and pleasure in the system.

No long story, let's get down to business.
How to kiss romantically and Pleasurably:

1 Slow and steady wins the race. Take it slow. Don't jump into the kiss. Hasty climbers have sudden falls. Take it slow and even if you start off with a kiss on the lips, don't focus just on the lips, and enjoy the romance and pleasure.

2. There is a fantasy in touch. Don't just kiss, touch. Touch each other's face. A pleasurable and romantic kiss involves more than just the kiss. As you kiss each other, touch your partner's face and shoulders with your hands.

3. What about other parts of the body? Kissing is not done only with the lips.
While kissing your partner on the lips, part the kiss to move your face lower and kiss your partner's ears, chin, and areas around their lips and even the neck. It brings pleasure and romance into play.

4. What is your hand doing? Use your hands. Move your hands over each other's backs and in front too, if both of you are comfortable with it. Soft sensual touches always have a way of bringing more passion, pleasure and romance in the air.

5 Your partner's lips is not meat. Kiss it Don't eat it. Lol. Some do eating instead of kissing. Don't hurt each other. Yes, it's easy to get carried away when you're on a passionate, romantic and pleasurable high, but you'll end up hurting your partner or give them a less than enjoyable experience. Be careful.

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Eight (8) Possible Reasons Why Nobody is Dating you-the way out

Yes this is happening everyday and will keep happening. Many have wondered what could be wrong with them that could be scaring dates away from them. It is common mostly among our female folks.

Here OgaInnocent wishes to identify the Possibles reasons why you don't have a date or why no-one wants to date you.
Or why you are still single


1. The first reason why nobody wants to date you could be unavailability. You are not available in the sense that you like indoors. You don't like to go out.You love the comfort and privacy of your home so much that the idea of going out there for anything less than a fabulous time completely puts you off.- make yourself available now!


2. Business: The second reason is business. You are always busy and doesn't have time. That could be the reason. - free yourself a little.

3. Your Past: you have been heart-broken? Or some past experiences that have forced you to with draw yourself from the opposite s3x. - Never allow your past to determine your future.

4. The fourth reason why no-one is dating you could be your high standards. Are you the principled or over-principled type? -Common...pipe low!

5. Advices: are you the type that always seek advices from pastor, parents and friends? It could be the reason why you are still single.

6. You are too Beautiful: yes, this is most times a problem. Every guy will always think you are already occupied. They run away. The competition is too high - that could be a reason why nobody is dating you. - Show yourself!

7. You are not Beautiful: This could also be one of the reason nobody is dating you. - try harder!

8. Character: are you the disgusting type? What does your character look like. Check it. That could be why you are still single. - Behave!

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Saturday, 18 April 2015

Sat Guru Maharaj Ji advises Buhari, Governors-elect on sincere, transparent Governance

Before I proceed with the news, let me inform you that Sat Guru Maharaji also prophesied that Goodluck must win the 2015 presidential election.

Now to the news: Vanguard reports:

Sat Guru Maharaj Ji, founder of One Love Family, has called on the President-elect, Gen. Mohamadu Buhari, and governors-elect, to make the welfare of Nigerian workers their priorities.

Maharaj Ji gave the advice during the 28th Anniversary of the establishment of his Maharaj Ji Village in Ibadan on Saturday.


He said the advice became necessary in order to increase the productivity of the workers and move the country forward.
According to him, civil servants should not be subjected to hardship before their salaries are paid to them.
The founder of One Love Family said civil servants had contributed a lot to the development of the country in one way or the other.

"The pensioners too should be paid their entitlements when due because they served the country before their retirement.

" Some pensioners have died of hunger because their entitlements are not paid in time.

" If the incoming administration can tackle this, it would make Buhari and governors-elect to make history where others Nigerian leaders had failed'', he said.

Maharaj Ji said the incoming administration should run a sincere, transparent and inclusive government.
"Project allocation and execution should be equally distributed so that every citizen could benefit from the dividends of democracy.
"No section of the country should be singled out for development at the detriment of the others.

" Employment and appointment opportunities must be on merit and be equitably distributed'', Maharajji added.
He stressed that the president-elect should ensure that elections at the local government level were held in line with provisions of the Constitution.

The religious leader said the president-elect should tackle the problem of Fulani herdsmen across the country.

Maharaj Ji said he was ready to provide solution to Nigeria's spiritual problem if invited to do so.
Source: Vanguard


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Five (5) Facts about Menstruation that you Should never take for Granted

For definitive puposes, I need to give Menstruation a definition, at least to give a clearer overview, in case there are novices here.

Menstruation is another term for your monthly period — which is when a woman's uterus sheds tissue, fluid and blood it no longer needs. The word "menstruation" comes from menses — the Latin word for "month."

Now let's hit the nail at the head:

Five (5) Facts about menstruation that should never be taken for granted.

1. Menstruation is biological, it is not spiritual. It has signs and symptoms. It is not miraculous. You may see a clear or whitish fluid in your underwear. This is vaginal discharge and is a sign that your period is on its way.

2. Menstruation is not abnormal, it is good. Getting your period is a normal, healthy and positive part of growing up!

3. Menstruation does not mean you are wasting your eggs. Each of your two ovaries holds thousands of eggs, and you are born with all the eggs you'll ever have!

4. Menstruation is not static or stable. It has no particular laid down rule. Irregularities are bound to occur. The average period releases about 4-12 teaspoons of menstrual fluid and only a small amount of that is blood. However, your flow can change throughout your menstrual cycle where some days are lighter or heavier than others.

5. Menstruation is not a collective affair. Everyone's menstrual cycle is different. Keep track of your unique cycle with a calendar to help you prepare for your next period. Don't wait for your friend. Two of you won't witness it at the same time.


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Weekend Question: Should I Sleep with a Bra?

This is the weekend question for the week. In case you don't know, every weekend, friday or saturday, we put up a question and get it answered ourselves.

The question for this weekend is: Should I sleep with my Bra?

Well, the answer is short and simple. Yes you can sleep with your Bra if you are comfortable with it. As at the time of this write-up, there is no known or scientifically-proven consequence of sleeping with your Bra on. It is a matter of choice, comfort and what the night tends to look like :_)

Hope that settles it?

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Three (3) Signs of a Woman's First Period that should never Be Neglected

The period of a woman starts from the age of 9-13 years. Though some girls who mature faster than their age due to good feeding may start seeing theirs even from the age of 8-12 years.

Be that as it may, there are a lot of signs that should never be neglected at all. This must not be unconnected to the fact that it is a first time thing. First period of a woman could be so strange and sudden and one ought not to be taken unawares.

So to the nitty gritty of the the status quo:

Three(3) signs of a woman's first period.

1. Breast (Mammary gland) Development
Before your period, you might notice your breasts are growing. The first sign of a girl's first period is developing breast buds — this is when your nipple becomes raised because of the fat, tissue and milk glands your body develops. During this period, you might feel more comfortable wearing a training bra or camisole. Your mammary gland can then take up to four years to fully develop. Generally, you will start your period one to three years after your breasts begin developing.


2. Hair Growth
You'll start developing more body hair either before or after your mammary gland bud. You will first start growing pubic hair in the area below your lower stomach and between your legs. At first it will be soft and thin, then it will gradually become coarser and curly. Then your underarm hair might become coarser and darker. Your period will usually arrive around one or two years after your pubic hair develops.


3. Vaeginal Discharge
This is a big sign that you may start expecting your first period. You'll begin to experience vaginal discharge that will be either white or yellowish. Don't worry, this is completely normal — it's your body's way of moisturizing the vaegina. Wearing pantiliners can help you feel fresh and dry. Your period will likely start between six and 12 months (or up to 18 months) after discharge occurs.
In addition to these body changes, you can also ask your mom when she started her period. It's likely that you'll get your first period within a year or so of when she got hers. Plus, it's a good time to have a conversation with your mom about all the changes you're experiencing. She can also help you find the right products.

Since you'll only have a general idea of when you'll start your first period, you'll want to do some planning so you can be prepared. Most girls use pads for their first period. Your first period will probably be fairly light,

I hope these Three(3) signs of a woman's first period helps you. Did I miss anyone? You can drop yours below using the comment box.


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