You are 25 and she is 39...wow, you try oo. 14 years gap, check out these tips.
Ways to date someone older than you.
1. Have a sense of humour: when dating someone older than you, Make laugh of the age saga and never be too emphatic on age. Joke about grey hairs, or about you still being in diapers when your partner got his or her first kiss. Having a positive and carefree attitude about it can help to keep things light.
2. Have a common Ground of Understanding: Don't be too emphatic on BBM, whatsapp, facebook, twitter when you are dating someone older than you; when you know she is not on those platforms. Or she may not know how to use them or find them interesting.
Find an interesting common platforms that both of you can enjoy like, travelling, swimming, etc.
3. Avoid Pessimists: Avoid people who will always criticise and judge you anytime you are dating someone older than you. They could be your friends. Simply detach from them...you got it? Just avoid negatively minded people anytime you are dating someone older than you, they are infectious.
4. Meet and communicate with people in the same category. I mean people dating older partners too. You are likely to find solace in their interactions. Share ideas and problems. Solve problems together...got it? Alright! Let's move on.
5. Mutual respect: I hope you don't disrespect her simply because you are dating her, forgetting that she is older than you. Also respect Him even though you are older than him...he is definitely the boss. Mutual respect is a pre-requisite in any relationship/dating that will thrive.
6. Maturity matters: Play mature game. You are dating a mature person. Always be resolute in your decisions and talks, do not always beat around the bush like small kids. What do you want? Say it! Hit the nail at the head. Simple!
7. Help and complement each other: It is not always the duty of the guy to do all the spending when dating an older someone. Complement each other. He must not take you out. Take her out also. That is why he is with you.
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