Ten(10) Mistakes Women make in Relationships Thinking that they are wise!

The worst mistake one can make in life is when "you do not know, and do not know that you do not know". Most of the times our female folks mistranslate some things in relationships and tag it 'wisdom'.

These are what I am about to highlight now. I term them " ten (10) mistakes women make in relationships thinking that they are wise. "

1. Being overtly too demanding : Don't worry, I will explain. Here I mean making it clear to the guy that you are in need. It doesn't work dear...Allow the guy to detect the handwriting on the wall. Show the signs but don't over-do them. You can go by giving him first, then allow him...you hardly achieve your aim by always calling him and demanding for money. It does not work, even if it does work, his love will be very superficial... He is paying for what he will reap!

2. Lies: Definitely, both parties are party to this. Both the boyfriends and the girlfriends do lie. But for now let us concentrate on the ladies.

Don't you think that he may be aware of some of your lies and will just keep quiet? It aint cool to lie. Be sincere dear, it doesn't cost a thing.

3. Disappointment: How can you tell him you are coming and do not show up? Without even pre-informing him?
He has already prepared his psychology for your reception, and you disappoint. Do you know what that means? You are putting him to the test, he might call your alternative...yes, he has an alternative...and that could be risky!
Dear, promise and fail doesn't make you wanted the more, rather it makes him loose confidence in you. It aint cool in any relationship. Let your yes be yes, and No be No. Ok?

4. Too much flirt: Your boyfriend will enjoy it. But once it becomes too much of you, he will not find you attractive again. He will just be using you to set up for his guys. Even if you are a party freak, try to pretend before him, let him be the one to remind you of the party for the night. If you do it yourself, you have sent a wrong signal - it aint cool baby!!

5. Forcing your fellow female friends on him. You think you are wise? He called you to meet him at a joint, and all you could do was to summon your room mate and her friends. Why? Did he call all of you? He know that you have people like that! But for now, he called only you. Obedience is better than sacrifice!

6. Abandonment/Neglect : If you try and do this! You will have to receive a query : "what are you doing in my man's house?" from your fellow woman next time you visit him. To be forewarned is to be forearmed.

7. Poor communication : He sends you credit, but you don't call him. You only flash. Who do you call with those cards he is sending you? You are not wise baby! That's not wisdom! Communicate regularly with him. It is a key to faithfulness!

I have finished! He who has ear, let him hear! It is the Lord who speaks!

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